Domestic violence refers to the behavior that occurs between family members and causes different degrees of physical and mental harm and destruction to family members by beating, binding, closing, maiming or other means. These acts of violence are divided into physical violence, mental violence and sexual violence. Domestic violence directly affects the victim's body and mind, making the victim feel physical or mental pain and damaging his physical health and personal dignity.

Whether or not violence is applied to children, the impact of domestic violence on children may be beyond our imagination. Please look at such a set of data: 1. Living in domestic violence, children's DNA will change obviously and will age 7- 10 years earlier. 2. The rate of physical abuse or serious neglect of domestic violence children is higher than the national average 1500%. 3. Those who grew up in domestic violence are six times more likely to commit suicide, and 50% more likely to take drugs and drink alcohol. 4. Children who grow up in a domestic violence environment are 74% more likely to commit violent crimes against others. Children who suffer from domestic violence are three times more likely to repeat this cycle in adulthood than other children.

Look at the news that just happened: Sunday, February 2, 20 18, 18, Kang, 12-year-old boy, a sixth-grade elementary school student, smoked at home after dinner, and his mother found her beating her son with a belt. Kang immediately went into the kitchen and took a kitchen knife. She chopped her mother more than 20 times, causing her to die on the spot. The hacked mother was only 32 years old. Let alone how cruel and ignorant this child is. In this incident, as a mother's "belt beating children", is it a domestic violence? Where is the root of children's violent killing of their mothers?

It is not uncommon for domestic violence to cause crimes. Some women live in the shadow of long-term violence and cannot get rid of it. In desperation, they chose the extreme way of "fighting violence with violence". According to the survey, among the more than 1000 female prisoners serving their sentences in a provincial women's prison, more than 1000 were imprisoned for killing their husbands, and some of them chose a desperate criminal way because they could not bear the violence and abuse.

There are also countless criminal cases of killing parents because of their simple and rude education methods and long-term use of violence. For example, a high school student in a school in Zhejiang killed his biological mother with a hammer because his mother was dissatisfied with his academic performance. A pair of twin sisters in Guizhou province were dissatisfied with their parents' long-term abuse, locked their homes many times and poisoned their parents.

Sadly, some children commit crimes because of their fear and hatred of their parents' violence, which is not only a family tragedy, but also one of the reasons for the prominent social problem of juvenile delinquency. Domestic violence has a great influence on children. 90% of the violence children see comes from domestic violence, and 70% of children will bring domestic violence into their families when they grow up.

When the abuser raised his fist, did you think of your child? Have you thought about the influence of domestic violence on children? Domestic violence is a destructive behavior for a family, especially for the growth of children. There are two kinds of injuries, one is physical and the other is psychological. There is no doubt that if a child is abused by domestic violence, it will bring a double blow to the child. If children often witness domestic violence between parents, it is easy to leave psychological trauma sequelae. Insecurity, inferiority, violent tendency, bad behavior imitation, influence on intellectual development, emotional apathy … these are the direct results that domestic violence can bring to children.

Why have domestic violence been repeatedly banned for thousands of years? Some experts have suggested that the most important reason for domestic violence is "the influence of family background". What is family background? In fact, this is a sociological concept. Generally speaking, it is the environment in which we grew up. In other words, the perpetrator of domestic violence may have been a victim of domestic violence, and TA may have a domestic violence father or mother.

In our consciousness, children who grew up in domestic violence should be the people who hate domestic violence the most, but why did they eventually become the perpetrators of domestic violence? Be the last person they want to be? Can domestic violence be inherited?