From this point of view, the groom's smile is certain, and the most complicated thing to marry the bride is the scale of the wedding banquet, the people to be entertained, the amount of bride price and so on. All these require the groom to rack his brains to solve.
Usually we go to other people's weddings, and accompanying gifts is also a problem. It used to be 50- 100 yuan, then it started in 200 yuan, and now it starts in 500 yuan. The number can't be singular, which has a bad meaning. What about good friends? Without 1000 yuan, they can't express their importance to their friends, or their friends are all 600 yuan, and they want to take 600 yuan, which leads to people who accompany them.
This proposal of Yishui County has also caused a lot of discussion. Some people are glad that some people oppose it, but I think it is necessary to combine local folk customs and not miss it all. Some families like to be lively and have many relatives. When there is a happy event, it is a habit for everyone to share the joy.
How much the bride price is given is generally negotiated by both men and women, and how much is their own business. If two people really love each other, no matter how high the bride price is, the bride price will be the property of both husband and wife in the future; Followed by the wedding car, the wedding banquet actually depends on preferences, the number of wedding cars and the number of wedding banquets are all a sign. Perhaps the local government is out of kindness and wants to be simple, but in fact, the government is not both sides of the wedding. How can we know the meaning?
So, how can I put this proposal? It may be difficult to implement. It is impossible to change the tradition of China for thousands of years, but it still depends on the people's thinking. So this road has a long way to go.