It's not easy to meet someone you really love. If you don't meet certain principles, I don't know how much fate you will miss. Of course, there are some basic principles that Xu Ge thinks are necessary, otherwise they are not suitable for being together.
1. share the same values of life. People should have the same understanding of the world outlook, outlook on life and values. At least they can acquiesce in each other's life values. The life pursued by husband and wife is inconsistent with their life goals, and there are serious differences in their views on things. How should marriage proceed?
Second, we can fully understand each other's trust. Knowing each other is the basic premise of interpersonal communication, and knowing each other is of course the most basic if you want to become a husband and wife. Do not know each other, family background, education, personality and temper, personality characteristics, living habits, etc. These should be fully understood, at least have a basic understanding. Of course, understanding is not enough. After understanding, if you can accept what you know, you have to fully trust each other. Without trust, there will be no communication, especially between lovers.