The word "eating a banquet" was originally used to mean eating a banquet. Whether it is a white wedding or a red wedding, it is collectively called a wedding banquet. In rural weddings, parents and villagers are invited to have dinner together, which means eating seats. Whether it's a wedding, a baby or a funeral, as long as there is a banquet, it's called eating.
As the existence of network language, the word "eat a seat" only appeared in recent years, and it focuses more on "white things", that is, people will eat a seat when they die. In fact, this is a kind of hurtful ridicule, which is often used with "grabbing bamboo shoots (losing more)" After eating this stalk and the corresponding suona sound, I was brainwashed badly in a short video, and I felt a little schadenfreude.
The difference between red and white things
1, treat
It is human nature to treat guests in the red event, but it is also very important to treat guests, relatives first, friends later. The range of friends can also be large or small. In general, invite close friends. Some places are not excluded, and some families will send invitations as long as they know each other. The host family may mean well, but the invited people may not think so.
White matter is completely different. The deceased is the biggest. As long as they have an intersection with the deceased, they will basically attend his funeral.
2. Suddenly
Generally speaking, there is plenty of time to prepare for red events, whether it's housewarming or wedding (red events generally refer to marriage). From acquaintance to love, a couple finally decided to enter the marriage hall. There will be a lot of experience, and there will be a lot of time to make preparations before making this decision, including drawing up the number of visitors and choosing venues.
White matter is completely different. Many dead people were killed after a sudden accident. Even in the hospital, no one can know exactly when the patient will leave, so it is impossible to prepare for the funeral in advance.