Some people are strong, others are weak. Some people are kind, while others are cruel. Some people are indecisive, while others are determined.

Different growth environments have created different personalities, and each of our personalities is actually related to our own family background.

Recently, I heard from my mother that I have a cousin who is getting divorced. My cousin had a good relationship when she was a child. When she returned to her hometown, she was just a few ordinary playmates, catching fish and climbing mountains together.

But when I grow up and have my own job, I seldom go back to my hometown, and she has hardly been to the city. So there are fewer opportunities to meet.

I asked my mother why she wanted a divorce. She is beautiful, kind and gentle. A girl like her should be very popular with men.

My mother told me that in fact, after she got married, she didn't live well at her husband's house. Mother-in-law is not good to her, and her husband is a person who only listens to her mother, so life is very bitter.

When she gave birth to her first child, her mother-in-law didn't wait on her for a month, didn't cook for her, didn't make soup for her, and had to come by herself. Sometimes my mother will take care of her for a few days, but she is embarrassed to let my mother take care of her all the time, so she says yes.

For the second child, her mother-in-law doesn't care, and sometimes her husband will cook several meals for her.

Husband is a typical mother-in-law, and has no opinion of his own. She lost her temper with her husband when she was bitter, and her mother-in-law heard her. Our family came back from marrying you to carry on the family line. Who are you to scold my son? ?

After listening to what my mother told me, I think my cousin is too tolerant. Her mother (that is, my aunt) died young, and my uncle married another woman, so she seldom gave her extra love.

Maybe that's when her cowardly character was formed. She lost her mother when she was a child, and her stepmother treated her like a child.

But when a woman marries such a man, should she submit to humiliation like this?

I don't know how my cousin got through such a family. Other women will suffocate. Divorced.

However, for the sake of her two children, she never got up the courage to divorce her husband. She felt that a child without a father and a complete family would be miserable.

This is why her mother-in-law has been bullying her. She thinks she is a soft persimmon that is easy to pinch. Anyway, she dare not divorce, will not leave the children, anyway, can bully her.

Her husband really saw a ghost. A man can't even protect his wife. What kind of person can he be?

Even if the bully is your mother, you should take the initiative to stand up and protect your wife. She gave birth to two children for you Why can't your mother see her?

To be a woman, you must know. The weaker people are, the easier they are to be bullied, because everyone likes to push their luck.

When you marry a man, you come to a completely strange family. You have never come into contact with this family before, and you have no idea about their personality or habits.

You need to work hard to integrate into this family and take care of everyone's emotions in this family.

This is actually hard enough. However, if you are weak, your family will only push your luck.

If they don't like you, but you always feel that their dislike and rejection are right, then you can't stand up.

Weakness cannot be respected. Weakness is actually your own incompetence. When you are bullied, you don't even have the idea of resisting, then you deserve to be bullied.

My cousin, actually, I feel sorry for her. She married such a family and found such a man. This is fate, but her fate is absolutely in her own hands. Her mother-in-law scolded her like that, but she even put up with it and refused to divorce. I don't think this is a simple marriage contradiction anymore.

If she had just entered the house, she wouldn't be so cowardly and car-scrapping, and her mother-in-law wouldn't do this to her.

Mother-in-law thinks she is easy to bully just because she is docile. There is no point in continuing such a family.

DOG:

Today, I take my cousin's story to tell all women, never be weak and never compromise something.

There are some things that you must stick to your principles. Even though the road ahead of you is difficult, there are some principles that should be adhered to, and you must adhere to them.

Being a woman must not be too weak, and must dare to say no and dare to refuse.

He is a bully. If you are tough from the beginning, people around you will never think you are a bully and will never provoke you casually in the future.

If you are weak and indecisive from the beginning, people around you will think you are a bully.