Therefore, those women who come from unfortunate families and have bad marriages are hopeless to most people and have missed the opportunity of rebirth. Those women who are unhappy in life and marriage begin to blame many misfortunes in life on their family background, because the picky parents of the family background make them feel inferior. Because they feel inferior, they marry a bad man and start an unhappy marriage. Then in an unhappy marriage, I spent my whole life complaining, doing my duty, fighting and suffering.
In Japanese history, there is such a woman called the Spring Festival couplets Bureau. In fact, her real name is Ah Fu, and the Spring Festival couplets bureau was given by the emperor. My father betrayed Nobuyuki, the main monarch, and killed Nobuyuki Saito, an important official in Akechi Mitsuhide. After the death of his father, people looked at the traitor family coldly, and the Afu family could not lift their heads and lived in poverty. Ah Fu's youth is dark, and he can't find a suitable object at marriageable age. There is another reason why she can't find a partner. She had smallpox when she was young, and her face was pockmarked. The double misfortune of the traitor's daughter and the ugly girl made Ah Fu grow into a strong woman. Later, she married the adopted son of her relative, Inaba Masayoshi? . However, this marriage is far from happiness for her. Inaba Zhengfang remarried, leaving two children after the death of his first wife, and Afu and Zhengfang gave birth to three more children. Rice leaves are very lewd, flirting with several maids, and Ah Fu is very worried. I was once insulted by my husband and concubine. Ah Fu stabbed a concubine to death and ran away from home. A Jiang, the general affairs office of Tokugawa Hideyoshi, the second generation general of the Edo shogunate, also gave birth to a son and is looking for a wet nurse. Afu volunteered to be a wet nurse after hearing the news. Ah fu's family is poor. Her father was a courtier and a traitor in Akechi Mitsuhide. She is a "defective product" because she can't even catch up with her general appearance. After a tortuous process, Ah Fu became Guang Jia's wet nurse. From then on, she devoted herself to the cause of raising family light, and she devoted her love to her children crazily. A Fu got smallpox at the age of 5/kloc-0. Ah Fu prayed to the gods and vowed never to take medicine for the rest of his life in exchange for Guang Jia's recovery. After Guang Jia fell ill, she really kept her oath and didn't take medicine all her life. Later, when Guang Jia and his younger brother Tadashi competed for the next Tokugawa shogunate, Ah Fu secretly visited Tokugawa Ieyasu and made his beloved Guang Jia a general. Guang Jia's trust in Ah Fu is deeper and deeper. After becoming a general, Ah Fu was in charge of everything, such as the residence of ministers and generals' wives, the management of Tokugawa women, including wives and concubines, and the children of governors living as hostages in the Edo City Mansion. Ah fu holds the power.
1629, she went to the palace to see the queen of water guard in the name of the general's family light? And his Nakamiya Tokugawa Kazuko, the emperor gave her the title of "Spring Festival couplets bureau", ranking from third.
No good family background. Born in a bad family, accused of being a traitor's child; Without a good marriage, she was insulted and despised by her husband and concubines; Not even pretty. She was unlucky enough in her life, but she didn't give in to fate and opened the roulette wheel to turn Gan Kun around.
Even a humble wet nurse, Ah Fu tries his best. Because Guang Jia got smallpox, Ah Fu prayed to the gods and vowed never to take medicine again for the rest of his life in exchange for Guang Jia's recovery. After Guang Jia fell ill, she really kept her oath and didn't take medicine all her life. Because she went all out to win the trust of Guang Jia, and her education and maternal love made Guang Jia a general.
Despite her poor family background and unfortunate marriage, Ms. Chunriju won the appreciation of her superiors by relying on her work ability and won lifelong honor and status.
This story happened in ancient Japan. Nowadays, there are countless stories like China.
Our Ms. Dong Mingzhu was born in an ordinary family in Nanjing, Jiangsu, and graduated? I majored in statistics in Wuhu Cadre Education College, Anhui Province, and worked as an administrator in a chemical research institute in Nanjing from 65438 to 0975. ? Dong Mingzhu's husband died when his son was 2 years old, which became a turning point in Dong Mingzhu's life. Without a husband to rely on and a complete family, at the age of 3 1, she will begin to take on the responsibility of raising children and supporting the elderly. 1990, Dong Mingzhu came to Zhuhai and joined Gree. 1992, Dong Mingzhu's sales in Anhui exceeded160,000 yuan, accounting for18 of the whole company. In 2007, he became the president of Gree Electric Co., Ltd.? . June 5438 +2009 10, Gree Dong Mingzhu was selected as one of the top 50 female CEOs of the Financial Times? . 20 13 Forbes list of Asian women in business power 1 1. 20 15 Forbes? The list of 50 strong women in Asian business circles ranks fourth. 2065438+In September 2006, Dong Mingzhu ranked 1 1 in Fortune Global 50 Most Influential Women. On February 6th, 20 17, Forbes released the list of the most outstanding business women in China in 20 17, and Dong Mingzhu ranked first.
? She once said: women should be able to be human first in the workplace. What is life? That is, I will do my best in my post. Who says we women can't last a day?
"I want to do better than others in my post. No matter who we are, male or female, we do things with diligence and thinking, not with gender or physical strength. This is the goal. Each of you has done better than others and is respected by others. Because of respect, your position will change. Realizing the value of life is not for professional purposes. Only in this way can we succeed. "
Born in an ordinary family, her husband died young. Without her husband to rely on, she broke out of the sky on her own.
What can I do if I come from a good family? What if it's bad? Whether lucky or unlucky, marriage can't decide your fate in this life. In the end, people still have to live their lives on their own. No matter how good the family is, everyone is required to struggle. No matter how good the marriage is, you can't guarantee the stability of your life.
Whether it is a man or a woman, this life is to struggle for a lifetime, not to be a tangled dodder flower. Even Liu Qing, the daughter of China IT godfather Liu Chuanzhi, works late every night.
Being born in a family can't determine your future, and marriage can't be an excuse for you to give up growing up. And work is the biggest export to play our life value. No matter what kind of work, whether it is to support the family or to find a direction in life, we should take work seriously. Work can bring you the energy of self-reliance, basically solve the problems in life, and make you no longer difficult to lower your posture when facing your husband's fussy and complicated mother-in-law relationship. If you are a nobleman, besides being a mother and wife, you can also find social contacts, broader horizons and more life value. ?
No one can decide your future, only you. Don't give up learning and lifelong struggle. Even if you come from a bad family and have an unfortunate marriage, you can still find your position and happiness through your own energy.