Rural people have bulging pockets, and weddings, funerals and weddings are also done more. Happy events, some places are very particular about big meals, such as whole chicken, whole fish, pig noodles and prawns ... why are you still starving here? Closer to home, I believe many friends have heard of the sky-high bride price in rural areas. In an area not far from Bian Xiao, when getting married, the man should not give the woman hundreds of thousands of bride price, but also prepare a gift package for the woman's family and her relatives, especially the gift package of the woman's family, including 10 sheep, 10 cases of wine, 10 cigarettes and so on. A set meal is worth thousands of dollars, and even more on the wedding day in some areas.
No, rural weddings or weddings, customs and management should be listened to by one person. In Jining, Shandong Province, it is called the "distinguished guest", and in some places it is also called the Prime Minister. Guests have high decision-making power and command power in weddings and funerals, and they are also part-time wedding hosts. Whoever plans to get married and set a good day should find a good guest after the date, because there are not only guests needed on the wedding day, but also many things to be arranged before and after the wedding. Whether it is the couple on the wedding day, their parents, or the family or neighbors who help on the wedding day, they should follow the instructions of the guests. These helping families or neighbors are called busy customers. They are responsible for burning boilers, setting off firecrackers, setting tables, cleaning and so on. Every wedding must have at least ten busy guests. Busy customers are usually found in their own homes or neighbors' homes, because they are close and easy-going people, and they will not refuse to be busy customers regardless of their social status, because they can be asked to explain. These busy customers must absolutely obey the instructions of the customers that day, and can even be described as "coming right away". Hehe, it sounds a bit exaggerated, but it is true in some cases.
Of course, there won't be only one guest in the village, and the guests can't be in charge. Generally, there are three or four male guests and three or four female guests in each village. There should be at least one man and one woman at the wedding, and bookkeeping or attendants should help. In fact, many people in rural areas want to be guests because of the scenery, but guests should at least be very familiar with the local customs and have dignified leaders. Since 17, there has been a Red and White Council in Jining, Shandong Province, and many shareholders have joined the Red and White Council. The governance of weddings and funerals is more unified and standardized, and shareholders are more standardized, not to mention who can do it casually.