Chun Wu's family conditions are very good. Generally speaking, children in such a family will inevitably have some delicate or arrogant emotions, but Wu Xinyi, let us see an elegant little girl. This is closely related to family environment and parents' education. So, what about Chun Wu and his lover? In one episode, mothers came to visit their babies, and all the other mothers dressed up, except Chun Wu's lover, who wore sneakers and jeans. ? To avoid unnecessary trouble, put on a mask. While other mothers are teasing each other about cooking, she is preparing breakfast in an orderly way. Chun Wu's family must have a nanny, and the average hostess doesn't need to cook in person. This detail reveals the harmony between family life and parents' words and deeds. Children from such families are generally well educated.
As the saying goes: it is the father's fault to raise but not teach. In our life, parents' behavior language and personality always affect ourselves. Nowadays, many families send their children to closed schools because of the tension between their parents; In order to live a busy life, I left my children with my grandparents ... What happened? Many children have become bad students and hooligans in the eyes of others. What's more, they beat the elderly and parents at home if they are slightly dissatisfied. The family cried and wondered why their son and daughter were like this. In fact, the reason is very simple. We only gave them love, but we didn't teach them the importance of upbringing.
A TV station has a high-priced program "Metamorphosis", in which children from poor families and children from urban rich families exchange lives and experience each other's lives. There was a teenager in the interview, and his mother prepared a sumptuous dinner for him and invited him to dinner. Teenagers are playing games at this time. In the face of their mother's constant call, they haven't left the TV station. There is a program called Metamorphosis, which mainly focuses on the children of poor families and the children of rich families in cities to exchange lives and experience each other's lives. There was a teenager in the interview, and his mother prepared a sumptuous dinner for him and invited him to dinner. Teenagers are playing games at this time. In the face of his mother's constant call, he not only stayed at home, but also pushed his mother to curse: Why don't you die! Then close the door and continue to play games. The mother on the side was already in tears. "How did I raise such a son?"
When the reporter asked the mother, do children often do this? Mother nodded. I was surprised to see this scene. What made this teenager say such cruel things to his mother? What the hell happened to him? Afterwards, I learned that because my parents do business outside all the year round, they sometimes leave themselves at home and give him a lot of money to spend. Because parents seldom care about themselves, they get into those bad habits, such as playing games, smoking, hitting people ..... Parents are absent during their children's growth, and they ignore their greetings to their children physically and mentally, resulting in the estrangement between them. Even if parents work hard for their children, in children's minds, they think that parents only love money and have no ego. Parents don't tutor their own lessons like other people's parents, and they don't accompany them to amusement parks. In order to attract their parents' attention, or to fill their inner defects, they go for a walk in the outside world. Then at an age without judgment, it is easy for children to go astray.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents' concern for children, parents' emotions and the relationship between parents will have a great influence on children. Parents who can handle their emotions well and give their children spiritual companionship will raise an educated child. May all children in the world learn to receive education from their families.