1. On a whim. This can also be called instant consumption psychology. Because I didn't make a complete plan for my own needs, when a batch of services to meet my own needs appeared, I fell into a state of being at a loss. Usually in this case, I will say, "It's over, I don't know what I want to eat." Sigh.

2. Too much desire. Originally, I was really hungry, and I knew exactly what I wanted to eat, but as soon as I opened the APP, I saw many choices, and I thought they were all delicious, and then I wanted to eat, and then I fell into a deadlock about which to eat. This situation usually leads to looking at pictures late at night, and the more you look at them, the more you like them and the more entangled you are. As a result, the store stopped serving when the order was placed.

3. Rational deviation. There is a need to fill your stomach and basically determine the style of cuisine you want to eat. But when I really choose to place an order, I consider the delivery time, price, consumption evaluation, store form, product packaging and other issues that have nothing to do with satiety. An hour has passed in an instant, and I still haven't placed an order on an empty stomach.

Solution:

Remember that your hunger is the first demand, believe that your first feeling is what you want to eat most, don't worry too much about delivery time and price, find no more than three comparisons within the menu you want to set, then make a decisive decision, touch your stomach and listen to your stomach, and you will place an order.

1, let go of too many desires. Most of our entanglements come from the fact that we want too much and we have too few possible choices. Always want everything, don't want to lose anything, afraid of losing too much, but in fact, a person can't have everything all his life, so be sure to keep yourself simple.

Everything has two sides. If you have something, you will lose it. One can't have everything. You should learn to compare and know what is most important. As long as you have what you want, you should be satisfied psychologically. Don't think that all the good things are yours. Besides, good things also have bad aspects.

3. Dare to stick to what you want. One way not to struggle is to dare to persist, knowing that what you are doing is meaningful and right, you will persist, and if you persist, you will gain something, so that you will struggle less and less.

4. Don't compare. People cannot live better than others. Everyone has his own path, advantages and disadvantages. Many times, we are obsessed with ourselves just because we envy others. In fact, if you look at the scenery upstairs, people downstairs regard you as a landscape. Finding yourself will reduce the entanglement.

5. Be brave in taking responsibility and correcting mistakes. Don't be afraid to choose, and don't struggle. Stick to what you believe, correct what you are wrong, find what you want through continuous learning experience and lessons, and constantly improve and improve yourself is the meaning of life.

When there is no right or wrong option, how we choose is right. No matter which way we take, it is important and meaningful. Don't dwell on every chosen afterlife, because we can make everything beautiful and correct.

It's great to eat any kind.

Everyone has "difficulties in choosing", so don't always try to make things difficult for yourself. But how to make yourself overcome it smoothly?

First of all, learn to let go of your first feelings for a short time. There is a book called The Power of Thinking Without Thinking, which studies the importance and accuracy of human intuition. Therefore, instead of taking the time to hesitate to choose, it is better to trust your first feeling and tell yourself that your first feeling is wrong. It doesn't matter, it can be easier and the choice is often more reliable.

Second, do subtraction first. Once you give up, don't look back. If you pass an option because of feeling or analysis, don't look back. Draw a cross in your mind, or draw a cross on the paper with a pen, so that the psychological suggestion is stronger, and then you go to the next screening. If you do subtraction and don't look back, your choice will be much less difficult.

Please refer to the above two points.

The reason why I am entangled is because of lack of money. I don't think it's appropriate to order any one. If I had a lot of money, I wouldn't have to worry about myself! It's like the overbearing president in the TV series taking his girlfriend to the store as a waiter. Don't take this, this, and others! There is really nothing to worry about.

Normal people have this kind of psychology, and sometimes they don't need special attention. If it affects work and life, it is recommended to seek medical advice in time.

Basically, everything everyone does in life is driven by two psychological needs. One is our original need to escape from pain, and the other is our desire to pursue happiness. In other words, "pain" and "happiness" have become the main forces controlling our lives, and our desire to avoid pain is far greater than our need for happiness. There are many difficulties in life, knowing yourself is the basis of choice, and making choices according to your own mind is the first, but it is the key to accept all the possibilities willingly after choosing!