How to retain someone who is about to leave?
How to retain someone who is about to leave? There is no such thing as a banquet that never ends, and someone will always leave us. When someone who occupies a very important position in your heart is leaving, we can try to retain him. Let me show you how to keep someone who is about to leave. How to keep someone who wants to leave 1
1. Find out the reasons for breaking up and diagnose.
If you are in a mess and cannot think independently, you can try to relax and calm down first, even if you spend a few days thinking about it, this time will not be wasted. Blindly trying to recover without understanding the real reason for the breakup makes the situation worse. This is the real reason why most people's situations become more and more serious.
2. Cold treatment.
No matter what the reason for the breakup is, after experiencing a breakup, you both need a period of time to calm down and let the relationship ease. Also give yourself some time to reflect so that he can leave a not-so-bad impression on you.
3. Make plans to transform and improve yourself.
No matter what the reason is for breaking up, one thing that is certain is that your value is no longer enough to support your attraction to him.
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. To love someone is to emotionally magnify the other person’s strengths and ignore the other person’s shortcomings. It’s not that you won’t fall out of love if you become good enough, but improving yourself is always the best bargaining chip in love.
Of course, if your problem happens to be the root cause of the conflict that led to your breakup, it is even more important to change it.
4. Unpurposeful sexual contact.
At the beginning of this step, you can try to contact him, but don’t show your purpose, and don’t let him think that you are approaching intentionally. Otherwise, all your changes will be seen as a show, a pretense to whitewash peace.
As long as you have the opportunity to convey value and attraction around him, and create a comfortable atmosphere between you, don’t force anything else, and don’t make any deliberate moves to get close, as this will expose your purpose and scare him away. other side.
5. Wait, be good at observing the opportunity, and let the relationship heat up.
Now that you can get along normally and you can give him a comfortable feeling, the only thing left is to break the window paper. If you are a boy, you should wait for the opportunity to make progress in the relationship.
If you are a girl, you should also pay attention to releasing your sense of need. You can create opportunities for him and let the ambiguous atmosphere prompt the other party to confess. Remember that everything is based on nature, and don't be artificial or act like this is your plan. How to keep a guy who wants to leave 2
1. A boy wants to leave. Since you are sure you want to win him back, you must find the key points that allow you to win him back, that is, the crux. Only by prescribing the right medicine can you win back him. It can get twice the result with half the effort, and the medicine can cure the disease. I always believe that a slap in the face can't make a difference. If a problem arises between a pair of lovers, it is definitely not just the fault of one of them, so both people have varying degrees of responsibility. It just depends on which one has the bigger problem. Now that the boy is leaving, if you want to recover, you are obviously at a disadvantage, so you have to take care of yourself and the boy. In other words, either change yourself or change this boy. But judging from the current situation, it is already difficult to change him, so we have to choose to change ourselves.
2. It is difficult to change certain established things. It is difficult to succeed without certain perseverance and endurance, so this requires great determination, but since you want to win back a boy's heart, you must Be prepared to spend a lot of money and let people see your sincerity. If it's because of your own pretentiousness that this boy can't stand it, then you should try your best to change it. Your personality, your habits that displease him, your hobbies, etc. all need to change. Try to change yourself in the direction of what he wants you to be.
Some people say, "I am who I am, why should I change myself." How arrogant this sounds! Well, since you are unwilling to change, then give up on this person who can't stand your bad side, and find someone else who can accommodate you. I have always believed that it is easier to change yourself than to change others. As long as you have a goal, you are not afraid that you will not be able to achieve it.
3. It’s not easy to change a boy who wants to leave you! But those who love you will not leave, and those who don’t love you will never stay. In fact, the boy who wants to leave you may not necessarily not love you, he may be tired. You need to give him time to take a breath and let him understand that he actually loves you, loves you but is willing to endure this fatigue, so as a girl, you must know how to be considerate and how to give him the right steps. If he wants to leave you and really doesn't love you but falls in love with a girl, then you have to break the girl, and you also have to start with yourself. What the girl has that you don't have is exactly what the boy likes. , you have to work twice as hard to get it.
4. As the saying goes, "women chase men, there is a veil between them", which is very true. Similarly, if you want to win back your boyfriend, just pursue him again, so that both of you can experience the feeling of being in love.
Love is really a science, and those who can successfully graduate from love studies will not have low EQ and IQ. So when you feel confused in love, you can turn to the sisters around you who have more love experience and learn more from them and ask for advice. Maybe you will not be far from graduation. I wish you good luck! How to retain a person who wants to leave 3
1. The correct way to recover a person
When recovering a relationship, the first thing we have to do is to let the other person see your determination and let him The other party sees some of the efforts you have made to win him back. As long as we can let him truly know what your truest thoughts are now, are we afraid that he will not face your recovery with a serious attitude? As long as you both are serious about this relationship, I believe the decision you both made at this time is the right one.
Since you want to save him and save your relationship, what we need is some courage and perseverance. No matter what his attitude is towards you now, we must let him know what you want now and let him know that you will not let go of his hand easily no matter what.
2. What are the steps for recovery?
On the road to recovery, the first thing we have to do is to find him bravely, find him, and admit his mistakes.
When you admit your mistake to him, if he listens carefully, it is enough to prove that you have won the above step. The next thing we need to do is impress him again, but let him know that you have changed.
I believe that when we appear in front of him with a new look, if he still loves you in his heart, then he will definitely make efforts at this time, and these efforts will definitely be beneficial to your relationship. Emotional repair in between.
If we want to repair your relationship and bring the person you hurt back to you again, what we need to do is find a right way to repair your relationship.
Has everyone learned the correct way to save a person? In fact, a correct recovery method may allow you to successfully touch the other person's heart again, thereby repairing the relationship between the two of you. If we are on the road to recovery, we still don’t know how to save each other, and we still don’t know any way to truly reach his heart. You need to take this relationship seriously. After all, a person with a very serious relationship will find many ways and learn to face himself. Learn to reflect on yourself. Only when you can find the real reason for breaking up can you successfully bring the other person back to you. When facing relationships, a serious attitude is key. If you face it seriously, what you will get will be the other person's, and what you will get seriously will be the other person's deep thinking about this relationship.