Xu Zhimo hates Zhang Youyi so much, but he still has children with Zhang Youyi. Their eldest son is Xu Jikai. In Xu Zhimo's words, he completely obeyed his parents' orders and left a incense for the Xu family. That makes sense, but he and Zhang Youyi have a second child. It starts with a photo, a photo of Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi. Xu Zhimo hates Zhang Youyi so much. How can he take a photo with Zhang Youyi?
1920165438+1On October 26th, under the pressure of Zhang Youyi's second brother, Xu Zhimo promised to let Zhang Youyi go to Europe to find him. Zhang Youyi needs to go to France by boat before flying to London. Xu Zhimo went to France to pick up the boat, but he was so reluctant that Zhang Youyi, who was originally happy, put away his happiness and excitement as soon as he saw him. Xu Zhimo took Zhang Youyi to Paris, where he jumped some clothes and put a hat on Zhang Youyi. Afterwards, Xu Zhimo took some photos with her and sent them back to their hometown, telling their families about their "sweet happiness" with Zhang Youyi. The only photo of Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi was taken at this time.
Then they rushed to London, and Xu Zhimo was still studying in Cambridge. Their second child, Peter, was born in London. Xu Zhimo's life here is quite comfortable. He chats with his friends all day, and he is often excited. But as long as his friends were separated, when he had to face Zhang Youyi, Xu Zhimo was a completely different person, depressed and depressed, as if he had suddenly fallen from heaven to hell.
But as a man, Xu Zhimo can't get rid of his nature. Zhang Youyi described Xu Zhimo at that time like this:
He lost to my body when he wanted to get rid of me most.
Zhang Youyi is naturally pregnant. But what she didn't expect was that after she told the news to Xu Zhimo, Xu Zhimo said decisively and resolutely: "Abort the child", and when Zhang Youyi said "I heard that someone died because of abortion", Xu Zhimo replied coldly, "There are still people who died because of a train accident. Don't you see that others don't take the train? " When Zhang Youyi heard these words, he immediately questioned Xu Zhimo's character, but China's traditional education made Zhang Youyi decide to follow Xu Zhimo's words. She tried to change her values and forced herself to have an abortion. Fortunately, however, in September of 192 1, Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi broke up in discord.
A week later, Xu Zhimo disappeared from their rented place, and then someone sent a message to Zhang Youyi, telling her that they were completely over and never wanted her again. Like a bolt from the blue, Zhang Youyi immediately turned to his second brother who was studying in Paris for help. Her second brother told her not to have an abortion and went to Paris to find him. 1922 On February 24th, Zhang Youyi gave birth to Xu Zhimo's second son Peter in Berlin. Just after giving birth to a child, she received a letter from Xu Zhimo:
Marriage without love is unbearable, freedom returns freedom, real life must be self-seeking, and real happiness must be self-seeking! Everyone has an infinite future ..... Everyone has the heart to improve society and benefit mankind. First, they should set an example, be brave in wisdom, respect each other's personality, divorce freely, stop suffering and start to predict happiness.
The divorce, Xu Zhimo didn't want to see Zhang Youyi, just want her to sign it quickly, but at Zhang Youyi's insistence, he came anyway. There was only one topic when they met. Xu Zhimo asked Zhang Youyi to sign it quickly. For the children, Xu Zhimo offered to go and have a look, but in Zhang Youyi's view, Xu Zhimo was just showing them, because the children had no place to live at that time, and Zhang Youyi begged the hospital to leave them in the hospital temporarily. Through the glass, he looks like a father, but he says nothing about his children's upbringing. Later, he never took the children, but Zhang Youyi did. As for the eldest son Xu Jikai, Xu Zhimo didn't take care of him either, but Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo's parents were taking care of him.
Xu Zhimo is a man with higher education and new ideas. However, in any education, he is teaching people to respect the old and love the young, be kind to their fathers and be filial to their sons. But in order to pursue what he thinks is supreme freedom and lofty love, he even ignores his parents and children, which is really unreasonable.