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Is the best "gift" to give to your ex is revenge? Or do you want to be your best self?

A girl from Shandong accidentally opened her boyfriend's cell phone a few days before Valentine's Day and saw the ambiguous messages inside, and discovered that her boyfriend was cheating on her. After the girl broke up, she cried bitterly for three days. Indeed, anyone who knows such news on the eve of Valentine's Day will feel twice as painful.

Later, the girl heard that her ex-boyfriend should eat and drink after breaking up, but she didn’t take it to heart. She felt that it was too unfair for her to cry for three days and she must make her ex feel uncomfortable, so she bought one online. Tons of onions were delivered to my ex's house by courier. I asked not to call the recipient, but they were piled directly at the door of my house.

Later, the male protagonist was interviewed and said that his ex-girlfriend was too domineering and that he couldn't bear it. He also asked, will a man who breaks up with her always shed tears? The poor courier boy had to move more than 40 times and took 5 or 6 hours to deliver a ton of onions upstairs. The courier boy said: I don’t know whether my ex cried or not. Anyway, I was moved to tears.

I heard that the final outcome was that my ex sold the onions. Not to mention crying, he didn’t even touch them. Instead, he made 1,000 yuan, and then went to have fun with his current girlfriend on May 20th. Had a great meal.

It is true that her ex-boyfriend cheated on her and broke up with her afterwards, but she had no intention of keeping him. He even only said that his ex-girlfriend was too pretentious and intolerable during the interview, but he did not mention anything about his cheating. . It can be seen from this that the relationship between the two is not very important to this ex-boyfriend.

And the girl who is the victim is of no importance to him. Therefore, he will not feel sorry for this relationship, will not be heartbroken by the loss, and will not shed tears in sadness.

Girl, if you think he will be like the song,? If you are willing to peel off my heart layer by layer, you will find, you will be surprised, you are me The most depressing and deepest secret means that you haven't realized that onions have no heart.

However, merchants sensed a business opportunity and made a wave of "ex-ex-day" promotions for Valentine's Day on 520: flowers for partners and onions for exes. The sales of onions have successfully increased the income of the farmer uncle, which is a good thing. Just don’t buy too much, lest you make 1,000 yuan by reselling it like your predecessor did.

Coincidentally, in addition to this creative girl who gave onions to her ex, there was also a girl who gave her ex a weird gift after breaking up. In 2016, a girl posted on Weibo that she made a bar of soap from her own fat and gave it to her ex as a "New Year's gift."

To be honest, if giving onions feels creative and not too ugly, then this girl’s gift is a bit too strong. Even if the other party breaks up because he dislikes the girl for being fat, this method is still unacceptable.

Yesterday, someone asked a question online: If you could give a gift to your ex, what would you give?

Some people say: Give him a washboard instead of durian, for fear that he will eat it and waste my money.

Someone said: Give him a cup of green tea. Who makes him prefer green tea so much?

Someone else said it very interestingly: Send him away, thousands of miles away.

In addition to these resentful answers, there are also some heartwarming answers.

@肉包打我也: He asked me to knit the scarf in the first place, but in the end I split it without even buying it for him. Isn’t it a pity?

@Cheese Nao Nao: The book of memories is nothing special. It means that you can record every bit of yourself and him online and then print it into a book. At that time, I had already thought about the name and content, and the book was almost completed. However, before I could We broke up when we gave it away, which was a pity.

Being able to recall those regrets and want to complete them should be the representative of a peaceful breakup. Memories with your ex include good and bad, romantic and angry, happy and painful.

The saddest thing is not the moment of the breakup, but after the breakup, you find that he has already started a new life with new people around him and is living a good life; but you are still immersed in it. I can't extricate myself from the memories. I have him in my dreams. When I wake up and think about it, my heart is filled with a feeling of loss. If you look at your ex who is still living a cool life, you will be unable to control your emotions.

Actually, in my opinion,

No matter whether you love or hate, cherish or take revenge after breaking up, you still care about his performance.

Why can't you be more free and easy and let yourself go?

The best revenge is not to give weird gifts like this or that, or to scold the other person from time to time to increase his presence, but to give him the best version of himself.

You don’t have to do anything, as long as you slowly become excellent and independent, this is the greatest revenge on him.

You turn around gracefully and start your own happy and comfortable life at the same time, letting that person know that this relationship is no longer important to you, and after you leave him, you live more freely and freely than before. Even better than before.

The opposite of love is not hate, but strangeness.

Existing like a stranger and not having contact with each other until death, is the best ending for this relationship.