What relatives should a married daughter bring? In real life, it is inevitable for a daughter to get married. After a daughter gets married, according to traditional customs, it is generally necessary to bring some relatives. Let's share with you which relatives the married daughter should bring.

Which relatives should the married daughter go to? 1 The so-called going back to my parents' home means, of course, that my married daughter takes her husband and children home to pay a New Year call to her parents on the second day of the Spring Festival. On the second day and the third day of the first month, most areas in China have the custom of returning to their parents' homes. Married daughters take their husbands and children back to their parents' homes to pay New Year greetings. On the second day of New Year's Day, this day is the "legal day" for children to pay New Year greetings to their parents-in-law.

On the second day of the Lunar New Year, the son-in-law must go to his parents-in-law's house and bring gifts. If you are a newly married son-in-law, this gift is very particular. You must carefully look at the choice of the gift. The nephew goes to grandma's house, and the daughter goes to her mother's house with her husband. This custom has a folk saying that "the second day of the first lunar month and the third day of the fourth lunar month are a good time to pay homage". After entering the door, bow down to the Buddha statue, ancestor statue and memorial tablet, and then bow down to the elders in turn. You can stay for dinner and play.

In many places in the north, it is an old tradition that many people know to go back to their parents' home on the second day of the Lunar New Year. Every year after the first and second days of the first month of the first month, married daughters will take their husbands and children back to their parents' homes for the New Year and visit their parents at home. In ancient times, they were called "returning home" and "visiting relatives in the province", commonly known as husband-welcoming day. When a daughter returns to her parents' home, she must be greeted by her parents' brothers at an early stage to show her grandeur. When a girl goes back, she must not go back empty-handed. She must prepare a big bag of biscuits and sweets, and then her mother will distribute them to her neighbors.

Bringing a gift home is called holding hands or accompanying hands. But when a girl goes back to her mother's house, she has to pay attention, that is, she can only have lunch and need to go back to her husband's house before dinner. Not only that, in the past, family members would choose this day to take family photos. However, there are also some local customs that stipulate that daughters married in the second day of junior high school are not allowed to return to their parents' homes, such as the traditional customs in Henan, northern Shaanxi and Zhejiang. But on this day, the husband must go to his father-in-law's house.

China people's closest relationship is blood relationship, and children have "half a son's work", as the saying goes, "one son has half a son". On the second day of the Lunar New Year, my uncle visited my parents-in-law with expensive gifts. This is an annual opportunity for my "half son" to meet his "mother" and express his condolences to his parents. Some places call the new son-in-law a "charming guest". For the "Jiaoke" New Year greetings, the parents-in-law are warm and hospitable.

The folk custom of going back to her mother's house during the Spring Festival is related to the education of her daughter by Zhu Yuanzhang and Ma Xiuying, the Ming Emperor. After Zhu Yuanzhang took over the world, Princess Anqing married a Ouyang named Lun. On New Year's Eve, all the married sisters went back to her husband's family for the New Year, but the newly married Princess Anqing felt that her husband's family was shabby, and because she was the youngest daughter of Ma Huanghou, she refused to go back to her husband's family, so she had to spend the New Year with her parents in the palace. Ma Huanghou, who has always been extremely strict with children, enlightened her. "You won't go back to your husband's family because of the emperor's daughter. Although they can't say anything, will they be happy? "

What relatives should a married daughter take? How to go to her relatives' house after marriage?

1. In modern times, people usually go back to their parents' home, so they don't have to visit relatives. After all, it's not a solar term. It's usually the Mid-Autumn Festival and the Spring Festival.

2. Married daughters should also buy some corresponding gifts to see. Close relatives should be taken care of. But relatives who are too far away generally don't need to buy gifts to visit.

Nowadays, people come and go by talent most of the time. When they have nothing to do, they all live their own lives and their family ties will not be broken. In addition, when they meet relatives for birthdays or have other things, their married daughters also need to visit them.

Family relatives usually go for generations.

It depends on the actual relationship.

1. In the past, relatives of the older generation in rural areas, who lived under one roof for four generations, were all allowed to leave. After four generations, it was too far apart, and the descendants didn't know each other, so they slowly stopped.

2, but now the concept of relatives in rural areas is as weak as that in cities. Basically, they are all contemporary, and the better is two generations. After two generations, they don't walk much.

3. In fact, no matter how far away or close relatives are now, they can go back and forth all the time if both sides walk frequently. If something unpleasant happens to both sides, even a generation may break up, so the key is to see how long the relationship can last.

What relatives will the married daughter leave? What relatives will her family leave after her daughter gets married?

1. It is not necessary to visit relatives after marriage, but it is necessary to visit relatives in the Mid-Autumn Festival or Spring Festival, but not all relatives will go.

2. You can choose to take a walk with relatives who usually come and go. Of course, when you visit relatives, remember to bring gifts, and you can't go empty-handed, otherwise it will be impolite. In addition, some neighbors actually have a good relationship with their families and usually take care of them, so remember to take a walk with them when you go back to your parents' house.

3. If relatives are far away and don't have much contact at ordinary times, there is no need to go deliberately. In fact, young people nowadays don't care so much about these customs, so they don't deliberately go to their parents' relatives' homes after marriage.

Can my daughter spend the New Year at her parents' home after marriage?

1. According to the traditional custom of our country, it is best for a daughter not to spend the New Year at her parents' house in the first year after marriage. First, she may have little respect for her husband's family. Second, it is said that the Spring Festival at her parents' home will also affect the relationship between husband and wife. Of course, these are superstitions and have no scientific basis.

Nowadays, young people don't care so much about the previous customs, so their daughters will go back to their parents' home for the New Year after they get married, for example, in the first year. Maybe they miss their parents very much. If they are going to their parents' home for the Spring Festival, they'd better communicate with their husbands. They should respect their husbands and parents-in-law.

3. In addition, according to the wedding custom in China, the daughter does not spend the New Year at her parents' home after marriage, but returns to her parents' home on the second or third day of the first month. Of course, she must prepare gifts in advance, and she can't go home empty-handed.