As a family with two children, and as a husband, this question reminds me of the two most difficult "ten months" in my life... 1. Food is different from the topic. My goddess almost never vomited during pregnancy.

We once joked: "Did you dye the pregnancy test stick red to trick me into getting married early?" But she became very good at eating. She would make trouble with me if she refused to eat. At three or four in the middle of the night, she would get up to cook eggs and run out.

Buying late-night snacks... I have tried all of these. The most outrageous thing is that the night before I was admitted to the hospital, I was still making a fuss about going to eat seafood... There was no way, the pregnant woman was the oldest, so I could only accommodate her. The result of her willfulness was

I went from 110 pounds to 130 pounds... Other people's bags are sour fruits to prevent vomiting, but our bags are... all kinds of spicy snacks... This is my first baby, inexperienced, so I just follow her temperament

Come on, just make her happy.

When I gave birth to my second child, I loved her so much and insisted on eating healthily. When I lost my temper, I went to my mother-in-law for help.

The difference is that the weight of the fetus is obviously more standard, and the amniotic fluid is relatively nutritious.

Because when we had our first child, the doctor said that the amniotic fluid was a little turbid and we had to be admitted to the hospital early. This was not the case with our second child.

2. Work and Rest From the above, you should be able to realize that during pregnancy, the husband has no good work and rest to speak of. He is a robot "slave" on call 24 hours a day.

When she gave birth to her first child, she had just graduated from college and was the first child in both families. Her parents were very nervous and did not allow her to work, so she stayed at home.

The result of a good young man who is trapped at home all day is that he has an irregular schedule. He goes to bed at one or two o'clock at night and gets up at eleven or twelve o'clock during the day.

The second child is not that expensive, so follow my standards and a healthy work and rest standard.

The difference is in the routines of the two babies after they were born. The daughter (Dabao) is also a sleeper. She can sleep until two or three o'clock at night. She won't wake up no matter how much she screams during the day and has difficulty falling asleep. The son (Xiaobao) is different.

, that routine is extremely healthy.

If children have a regular rhythm of life, parents will suffer less.

3. Exercise After pregnancy, you still need to do some exercise, such as walking.

During the first pregnancy, the mother-in-law and my mother were very diligent. Regardless of whether she wanted to move or not, they would take her out for a walk after dinner anyway and walk around the community twice; during the second pregnancy, everyone was busy, and she was too lazy.

The difference is that when I gave birth to a daughter, it came out very quickly, with a loud pop; when I gave birth to a son, it came out little by little, like constipation.

(I have accompanied two births) Therefore, if you are able to move during pregnancy, you should try to take a walk to strengthen the strength of your lower limbs; 4. Physiological needs. It is estimated that most men are concerned about this. They cannot act on the first three and the last three. If there are difficulties, they can solve them by themselves.

There is an interesting phenomenon. When she is pregnant with a daughter, her wife's needs are greater; when she is pregnant with a son, she becomes indifferent.

My personal understanding is that when you are pregnant with a daughter, both female hormones are present; while when you are pregnant with a son, male hormones are diluted. This is purely personal speculation and there is no specific verification.

Finally, during pregnancy, men still need to check their behavior. Pregnant women have great mood swings and can become unreasonable.

When I was pregnant with my daughter, the "tea girl" routine was just emerging and hadn't become popular yet, so many people didn't know it was a scam.

One night in the middle of the night, the phone rang and someone added me as a friend. It happened to be the avatar of a certain beautiful woman. I also used my real name, so the other person also called me by my real name. It was such a huge misunderstanding. There was no way to explain it. It almost made my family...

First of all, I think it is not difficult for the husband when his daughter-in-law is pregnant, but it is the daughter-in-law who is suffering!

Pregnancy reactions are also normal!

When my daughter-in-law was pregnant, I accompanied her to every pregnancy check-up from the hospital to the later stages.

The first time my daughter-in-law had a pregnancy reaction and vomited, I patted her back. I was frightened by my daughter-in-law’s murderous gaze, so I casually took out a few napkins and handed them to my daughter-in-law after she finished vomiting.

I was very nervous and felt sorry for my daughter-in-law. I gradually got used to it. Every time my daughter-in-law vomited, I would say nothing, bring a napkin, gently stroke her back, and help clean her after she vomited!

After my daughter-in-law recovered, I said to her: "This child bullies you like this. When he comes out, I will teach him a lesson for you."

My wife burst into tears and laughed!

My daughter-in-law was anorexic during pregnancy, so I tried my best to cook her various foods.

Every time before eating, I say: My wife and my children are hungry!

My wife said that so and so gave birth to a baby weighing eight pounds.

I continued: If you don’t eat, don’t give birth to a child weighing three or four pounds. Will you lose face?

My daughter-in-law said: I need to eat more, and I will give birth to a baby weighing more than six pounds!

Then I vomit after eating, and eat again after vomiting.

A woman’s love for her children is beyond what we men can imagine!

When the weather is hot, my wife doesn’t want to eat and eats tomatoes every day!

I'm afraid of malnutrition.