Welcome: the matchmaker gets off first, and others get off next. The groom is invited by the younger generation of the bride's family.
Introduction: the man's relatives and friends enter the woman's house in turn, and the matchmaker formally introduces both relatives and friends, first introducing the man to the woman's house.
Requisition: the man brings gifts into the woman's house, and the woman accepts them and gives them red envelopes; Gifts will be displayed in the hall, and the matchmaker will give gifts, gold ornaments and gifts to the woman's parents. Women's relatives and friends will collect gifts and display offerings on God's table.
Serve sweet tea: the elder of the woman asks the relatives of the man to sit down according to their age, and the groom comes last. The bride-to-be was led out of the hall by a lucky woman, holding sweet tea for the man's guests.
Press the teacup: After a while, the bride goes out to collect the teacup, and the man's relatives and friends need to press the teacup with red envelopes.
Wearing a ring: The bride-to-be sits on a high chair facing outward (inward if married) in the center of her main hall under the gaze of her parents and relatives, and the low chair is stuck; The middle finger wears a ring (male left and female right). The groom-to-be gives the red envelope to the bride-to-be
Renaming: The matchmaker guides both parties to change their names.
Ancestor worship: my uncle lights candles to burn incense, the matchmaker reads auspicious words, and then the woman's parents worship the ancestors of the gods and tell them that their marriage is settled and pray for blessing.
Reward: The woman accepts some gifts and betrothal money from the man and gives him six or twelve gifts in return.
Engagement party: After the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman prepares refreshments and holds a banquet in honor of the man (the man on the right and the woman on the left). The woman prepared chicken legs and attached a red envelope to the young man. In addition to pressing the table, the man will also give red envelopes to all those who help.
Seeing the guests off: After the banquet, the man's guests leave for home, and the woman's younger generation washes their hands for the man's guests with a bucket of flour. If they are outside the restaurant, this gift is unnecessary. Never say goodbye and send it to them.