"You didn't see the friend circle I sent? Why is it that my mom and my sister, my classmates and my coworkers all saw my friend circle, and some of them even sent me birthday wishes red envelopes, but you're going to pretend you didn't see it?"
This year, is the 30th birthday of Fang Qing, she thought, after a few years of reminder, six years of marriage, her husband should remember her birthday and prepare a surprise for her, but still no, she huffed and puffed to her husband's WeChat bead-blasted to send the above paragraph.
This day, Fang Qing can not mention the excitement, the heart also feel very aggrieved, why their own every year to the husband, son, and the husband's parents birthday, and will be prepared in advance of the birthday cake, but how he can not give himself a good birthday? Just this once a year.
Thinking of this, Fang Qing's mood even more frustrated, other days Fang Qing can not care, but their own birthday, she always can not get over this hurdle.
Time back to twelve years ago, when her husband, Meng Yin, or his quasi-college lover, they just met not long ago, to be exact, Meng Yin unilateral 'acquaintance' ". It was the twilight of spring, Fang Qing stayed like a waterfall of long hair, Qi bangs, big eyes blinking, white skin on a long pink skirt, walking on the lawn next to the central square of the campus, sniffing down the peonies in full bloom in spring, long hair, long skirt, so that people can not help but want to be together for a long time.
Spring is the season of love. Eighteen years old, is the season of her first love. Eighteen-year-old Fang Qing, is walking on the most beautiful years of her life. Fang Qing understand this time, is in many years after the present.
The sky was blue, and the wind was blowing the white shirt. Eighteen-year-old Fang Qing is making a white boy's cheeks blush and his heart beat faster. Just like the lyrics of a song sung by Faye Wong: "Just because I took one more look at you in the crowd, I could not forget your face anymore", this teenager's heart was occupied by Fang Qing.
At that time, the love started so simple, but it is so true and lasting. Meng Yin, who comes from a not-so-wealthy family, is not a bold boy, he is not good at talking, he is not publicized enough, and he has not saved enough courage to confess his love.
But at this point, the teenager did not intend to give up, and quietly take action, through careful observation of Fang Qing know which major, in which dormitory building to live, he decided to Fang Qing after class back to the dormitory on the way to carefully create the right "chance encounter". But as time passes, Meng Yin has never found any good opportunity.
Every day, he waited, and he was sweet and anxious. Knowing that one day, Fang Qing and the three girls in the same dormitory talked and laughed together on the way to the dormitory, Meng Yin heard them saying, "Fang Qing, the day after tomorrow is your birthday, we all discussed to prepare to give you a surprise! "
It turned out that on Fang Qing's birthday, the other three girls in the dormitory were temporarily called by the counselor to participate in an off-campus activity to fill up, and might come back very late at night. Fang Qing's heart was lost. In the past, when not going to college, mom and dad will do a lot of good food, and ordered a birthday cake in advance, accompanied by Fang Qing wish. But this year went to Xiamen thousands of miles away from home to study Fang Qing, is spending the first birthday alone away from mom and dad, think of this can not help but sad up.
At five o'clock in the afternoon, Fang Qing's cell phone rang, an unfamiliar number. The teenage state of mind is always lonely and suffering, hesitation and apprehension in the um answer button: "Hey ......" the other side with a very common tone without any emotional coloring said: "Hello, you have a courier need to May I ask how many buildings in the dormitory campus of XX University you are in?" Fang Qing was puzzled inwardly, but then thought that this should be a surprise from her roommates, instantly filled with melancholy emotions dissipated.
She results in the courier quickly ran back to the dormitory, can not wait to open the gift. The first thing she thought was that her roommates were playing a prank on her.
The first thing she thought was that her roommates were playing a prank on her, and the second thing she thought was that her roommates were playing a prank on her.
Around 6:30, the roommates came back, and they all yelled that they were going to the nearest cake store to buy a cake for Fang Qing. Fang Qing was confused and said anxiously, "Aiya, you guys are finally back, so don't sell yourselves short, I know your surprise has arrived! It's really an unexpected surprise!"
"Ah, no way, there is such a good thing, quickly let me see!" Roommate Xiao Tang excitedly shouted. A look of watching the fun is not too big.
When Fang Qing opened the cake, everyone exclaimed "Yay!" When Fang Qing opened the cake, everyone exclaimed, "Yay! The roommate Xiao Tang like to catch the handle of similar early love like to ask: "Fang Qing, quickly from the truth, I want to be the first to know who is so arrogant, dare to come to take away our 'room flower' of the heart. Fang Qing, who is in a state of confusion, said, "You don't have to joke around anymore, Xiao Tang, isn't this just a surprise prank that you guys pulled?
Xiao Tang looked at the other two, both stretched their necks and shook their heads, an innocent look. Fang Qing's face instantly reddened, and in her heart, she secretly had a small surprise. Could it really be that someone has confessed to himself in this way.
Everyone you a word I urged Fang Qing to tell the story, found that it was actually a cake sent by courier, chase love clues to this broken, we are not yet finished.
This night, Fang Qing lost sleep, who will be? The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first time I saw this, I was able to see it in the back of my mind.
Until one day, a few of them walked together again on the way back to the dormitory, the good thing is that Tang suddenly said to Fang Qing: "I bet, with the cake to express their love to you is that often in our dormitory downstairs, pretending to meet with you boy." Fang Qing had a chill, "Shhh, don't talk nonsense, he might be waiting for his girlfriend here." "No way, I've noticed several times, he's always sneaking glances at you, twice I purposely stared at him and he quickly turned his head away." Xiao Tang decisively retorted.
Between half-belief and half-doubt, Fang Qing finally summoned up the courage to confirm her suspicions to Meng Yin during the Dragon Boat Festival mini-vacation (when there were fewer people on campus, and the roommates had all gone back to their hometowns). And just like that, the two secretly fell in love.
Since then, Fang Qing has always felt that Meng Yin is a romantic partner, attentive and affectionate. As a matter of fact, throughout the whole period of studying in the university, Fang Qing had also been quite satisfied with Monin. Meng Yin would create a lot of small romances from time to time, take Fang Qing to see the sea of rapeseed flowers, he would make up a flower basket and wear it on Fang Qing's head, he would buy fireworks for the Lantern Festival and take Fang Qing to a place where there are no people to put them on; he would take Fang Qing to eat delicious food, buy good-looking clothes, and go on short trips once in a while.
Almost at the end of the day, Fang Qing received a reply from her husband, saying nothing, but sending her a WeChat red envelope. Fang Qing's thoughts were pulled back, she felt that her husband had changed, and no longer spent any effort on her, not even to commemorate the birthday of their happy handshake also do not care.
Fang Qing did not even open the red packet, and started the same barrage of questions: "Why don't you say a word of blessing? Why did you send me a red packet instead of buying a gift, you know I won't spend it even if I receive a red packet." Because the family spends a lot of money, Fang Qing herself is not willing to spend money to buy gifts for herself, but longs for her husband to buy for himself, so that she will be able to accept it with peace of mind.
The husband just coldly sent a sentence: "Our family does not have the habit of birthday."
After graduation, they logically walked into the marriage hall, the two people in the provincial city where Fang Qing's hometown rented a house, work and live.
Then later had a child and bought a house. Meng Yin went to a well-known company to do the development of APP programmer, Fang Qing chose the passionate host work. Both of them are getting busier and busier with their work, and their children's education expenses and mortgage payments are the two big mountains weighing on their heads.
Because most of the pressure of life is on her husband, he doesn't have the time and energy to be with her children, to care for Fang Qing, and to be inexplicably angry with her son when she's in a bad mood. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," said Mr. Wang, who has been working on the project for over a decade. Time has really turned this once shy and romantic boy into an emotionless money-making machine? His son, Nuo Nuo, also dislikes his father. Whenever his father takes a break, if he receives a call to work overtime, he will run and shout, "Daddy has to go to work! , and then would excitedly rush headlong into Fang Qing's arms.
The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long day of work, and I was so happy that I was able to go to work, and I was so happy that I was able to go to work, and I was so happy that I was able to go to work. My son is already familiar with the children in his current kindergarten and does not want to change schools. But Monin is still working overtime to earn money as usual.
And in Fang Qing's thirtieth birthday soon after the night of the day, Meng Yin drank too much wine back to the home, has always been bad at expressing his strength of alcohol, ambush in the son's bed poured out his heart: "Son, Dad really hard, want you to go to a better environment, stand in a higher starting point, have a more exciting life than Dad. Dad also wants to buy better cosmetics for mom and take you on a trip every year. If dad doesn't work hard now, you and mom will blame dad later. Son, can you forgive dad for being harsh now?
Hearing this, Fang Qing felt that she kind of shouldn't complain about her husband on her birthday, and also began to slowly go back to think about it, and the romance that she felt before was just her own subjective feelings, and she, who has been living in her own emotional world.
Perhaps the husband has always been a man of action, and tends to solve problems with his actions, while he is more inclined to use language to express his emotions.
Probably he has been a child, refused to grow up, owed the debt of time, and eventually have to grow to pay.
The man is from Mars, the woman is from Venus. When they met and came to the earth together to enter the marriage life, they found their world is not at all the imaginary world. It is only after going through long years of fighting with her husband that Fang Qing finally believes in this truth.