Getting married once now is a huge burden for ordinary families. They not only have to prepare cars and houses, but also pay the bride price that can satisfy the woman. Many families have to go bankrupt to get a wife. Even so, most women will say that marriage is unhappy. Last year's data showed that if 9 million people got married a year, more than 4 million people would get divorced. After hard work, I got married, but after a few years, I had to leave half, which was basically put forward by the woman.

Nowadays, there are a lot of poisonous chicken soup on the Internet, which advocates that marriage should attach importance to feelings rather than feelings, leading to the change of many women's traditional concepts. People used to live a down-to-earth life when they got married, but now both men and women will always pay attention to whether there is another more suitable person in marriage, and the proportion of cheating has increased a lot compared with the past. Bian Xiao read several emotional chicken soup books with high reading, all of which said that women should find a rich man to change their lives, and women should be loved infinitely. Is this value correct?

A real marriage should be that husband and wife go hand in hand. I used to get married without a house. In the process of struggle, they saved enough money and paid the down payment, and there was no need to fight for who owned the house. Nowadays, many girls spend their monthly salary on the moonlight, just to dress up well, and on the other hand, they ask the man to have a house and add her name. As long as the man shows any idea of wanting her to work with him, he will immediately turn his face and shout goodbye.

I have a friend named Xiaomei, who earns 5000 yuan a month and rents a house, but has no savings. Because she advocates enjoyment, as long as the money comes down, she will arrange the trip immediately, buy all kinds of high-end cosmetics, and even buy some luxury bags when she owes money. Now that she is 30 years old and unmarried, the people introduced to her at home are very disdainful. She is seriously poisoned by romance novels and is waiting for a super-rich man to marry her. Every time I fall in love with a man, as long as the other person can't serve him a little, he will immediately turn his face.

The most terrible thing is that there are not a few girls like her. After she told her emotional experience in the group, most girls agreed with her, because if she couldn't always be self-centered, her boyfriend should be kicked out immediately. Now all young people are working hard for the future. Not all of them are born with money at home. They all want men to make more money, and they all want men to always take time to take care of themselves. How can there be such a good thing? Keep your feet on the ground when you are alive, and you can't always measure it by online standards.

There is also a friend who watches others send red envelopes online every day to show their love. Compared with her husband, she is angry. When she got home, she immediately asked for a divorce. I told her that a good life is enough. Don't watch others play all day. Who knows whether other family feelings are good or bad? Although it is often said that there are 30 million bachelors now, women are not worried about marrying. But the average number of these people per province is 1 000, which is not much. What's more, there are fewer and fewer men with good conditions now. I still hope that girls have a mature emotional outlook and don't always be taken away.