1 First, analyze the reasons for being bullied with your children. The other party's reason, or their own reasons. Only by knowing the reasons can we determine the countermeasures.
2. Tell your child that when you are bullied, you must first ensure that you are not hurt. Secondly, encourage children to show their position actively and accurately, resolutely tell each other "don't hit me", leave the scene or ask the teacher for help.
3. Tell children not to avoid problems, but to solve them actively. When you encounter something, you must first learn to control your emotions, learn how to deal with it, and think hard. If you don't understand, you should seek more help.
4, correct guidance, let children learn to tolerate others. We can take this example to guide and educate our children and let them know that this kind of behavior will cause harm to others, which is hated by everyone. Cultivate children's love and dilute their hostility.
5. Let the children solve it themselves as much as possible. It is common for children to fight with each other. Parents should face it calmly and believe that children will eventually find their own "degree" of communication through exploration and practice.
6. Tell the child what is right and what is wrong, and establish her own world view.
7. Enhance children's self-confidence. Be good at discovering children's advantages and helping them build self-confidence. You can also enhance children's self-confidence by cultivating their skills and so on.
Children always have to face the impact from all aspects of life when they grow up. Instead of protecting children, it is better to let children learn the skills of self-protection. Let children face all kinds of hardships from life alone and find the best solution on the premise of learning to protect themselves.
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