First of all, determine the main table (the left hand on the back of the stage is the main table), and the main table must be the table where the newcomers sit. The couple sat with their backs to the stage and faced the guests. The left and right heads of the couple are their parents (this is the wedding day, and they are also the most respected people of the couple), followed by two matchmakers, two well-off people, witnesses or bridesmaids. There are too many groomsmen and bridesmaids, so you can arrange one or two couples to take care of the main table. The rest are arranged on other tables. Today is the gift of this couple's life. No matter how senior the guests are, today is to congratulate the newcomers, so the newcomers must sit at the main table. Letting the couple sit at the same table with their parents also means family reunion.

Followed by the guest table (this table is generally parallel to the main table). Generally, women who come to see relatives are arranged to sit down except their parents. In the past, it was always for the host family to arrange the company of the man's relatives and friends, because there are too many people who can kiss now, and they usually sit at the same table with their relatives. Just came to make a toast in the middle of the party.

Some relatives come to two or three tables, and their elders are arranged behind the guest table. Starting from the fourth table, relatives can be arranged in turn. The rest of the table should be arranged for the man's distinguished guests and elders (the man's guests are from his own family and cannot compete with relatives for priority). It is also a good choice for some people to arrange their wedding guests in private rooms, but many female wedding guests want to watch the wedding in the banquet hall, so it is necessary for both parties to negotiate arrangements.

Backdoor banquet supplements knowledge: this custom originated in ancient times and is generally called "mothering", which means going home to visit parents after marriage. It is a marriage custom of Han nationality.