Although I don't think there is much problem with alienation, the 90-year-old grandmother has done something for her grandson at two in the morning. In fact, everyone knows that this is a sign that her grandmother likes her grandson, but it is a bit excessive to pay attention to her physical condition for the sake of her grandson. Every other generation? Yes; In modern society, it is normal and common for parents to separate, but it is because of this phenomenon that parents have a headache and think it is a bad phenomenon, but it is not. In fact, separated parents are also the love of the older generation for their grandchildren, and this grandmother has brought this love to the extreme. She is old, but she still has to get up early in the morning to clean up the mess for her grandchildren.

No matter in rural areas or cities, there is the phenomenon of intergenerational relatives, so intergenerational relatives not only exist in cities, but also appear in rural areas; For example, I have a cousin whose grandfather likes him to the extreme. Because there is no wireless network in the countryside, I specially installed a wireless network for him so that he can play games at home. And all his wishes, as long as his grandfather can do it, can be realized for him, so he is spoiled by his grandfather. He has been in an atmosphere of being spoiled slowly, which leads to many bad habits that his parents can't control now.

Therefore, every generation of parents has a big problem, that is, many old people can't control their love for their grandchildren, and it is easy to turn love into doting, which leads children to form some very bad habits and start playing tricks on them. If parents or their grandparents can't meet their wishes or demands, they will roll around like hooligans, which is fine for parents, but unbearable for the elderly. They will promise their children's demands and try their best to meet them. In fact, this is undoubtedly harmful to children, so that they can face the society independently when they grow up.

So in the face of such a situation, many parents are reluctant to give their children to their parents, but some parents say that they are too busy to educate their children, so they give them to the elderly, but the elderly spoil and blame them. In fact, this is very unreasonable. Their children should educate themselves and manage themselves, not give them to their parents, knowing that their children may be spoiled. Why do they finally blame their parents?