The method of guiding a man to do housework 1, imperceptibly, changes him ideologically.
A good husband should be cultivated slowly. From the beginning, we should establish his family culture concept and let him understand that a good man should do housework. For example, he often takes him to a friend's house as a model husband, so that he can witness with his own eyes how handsome men are when they do housework; Always brainwash him and tell him that what is popular now is a good man at home; You can even rise to a certain height and tell him? How can you sweep the world without sweeping the house? Under these subtle influences, he will definitely take housework as his responsibility. Unconsciously, change him ideologically.
2. Combine kindness with kindness and bind him with rules and regulations.
As soon as you get married, even when you are in love, you should let him know that your wife is to be distressed and spoiled, and loving your wife is to love housework! Remind him regularly. Don't you love me and my family? What is it to do some housework? ? What's more, at the wedding, please ask the officiant this question: Are you willing to marry her and take the initiative to do housework? Hey hey, he won't say no! Combine kindness with kindness and bind him with rules and regulations.
3, rhetoric, on the grounds of rest? Forced? he
The man is a big boy. If you make him happy, he will be willing to do anything. For example, he plays computer all day on weekends. You can press his shoulder and say: Does the cervical vertebra hurt? It's not good to face the computer all day. Stand up and move, raise your head and stretch your arms. Just wipe the dust off the table and bookshelf. ? With such warm care, will he still not do it?
4, pampered weakness, a man's sense of responsibility? Order? he
If you always work hard and clean up everything silently, men will not see, let alone appreciate your efforts. Over time, the housework will become yours? Patents? Yes So sometimes, you have to learn to pass the housework on to him. For example:? Honey, I don't feel well these days. I can't touch cold water Can you help me wash those clothes?
Do you think he has the courage not to wash? For that kind of super lazy man, you can take risks. For example, if you mop the floor and suddenly your waist flashes, he quickly tells you to rest. Don't procrastinate, and you say anxiously: That won't do. It hasn't been put off for a week, but it will be put off anyway. I guess he grabbed the mop and mopped the floor before you finished.
5, caring, let him realize the benefits of doing housework.
If you just watch TV for fun while he is doing housework, be careful. I guess he won't do this again next time, because he will be a little unbalanced. So remember, you can't be idle when he does housework. You have to follow him before and after running and ask him affectionately. Honey, are you tired? Drink some water and wipe your sweat! ? If you follow closely like a follower, he will feel that doing housework is something to be proud of, and he will take the initiative to do it without you calling him.
6. The more you praise, the prouder and happier he will be.
Highly praised, let him realize his self-worth in housework, not only care about him, but also worship him. If he is cooking, you have to praise him. Honey, your spicy chicken is really great, much more delicious than taoranju's! ? If it's cleaning the toilet, you have to praise him for his manly way of cleaning the toilet.
7, vigorously promote, let him in the name of the Vietnam War.
Having a good husband who does housework is something to be proud of, so we should seize every opportunity to publicize it. Housework is a trivial matter, and it is important to let everyone know. When everyone knows that he is a good husband who can do housework, he will be praised as a model at first sight. Do you think that under such honor and aura, he can personally destroy his glorious image? You must try your best to maintain it. At that time, you can enjoy yourself!
Five benefits of men doing housework 1. Men doing housework can make them love their wives more. A lot of housework looks easy, and I really realize my wife's daily hard work when I really do it. When cooking, smoky, all kinds of oil stains will do great harm to my wife's skin. When washing dishes or clothes, detergents and washing powder will irritate the skin on your hands. Winter is a nightmare when some clothes need to be washed with cold water. If you leave all this to men, will your wife still have bad skin?
Men can exercise their eyesight and communication skills by doing housework. To put it bluntly, this daily grocery shopping is really a technical job. Buying food requires insight: which dishes are good, which dishes are not good, and which dishes are beautiful but not delicious. The price is quite expensive, but it's not necessarily to my taste. In addition, we should bargain with vendors and unconsciously exercise the level of communication with others in bargaining. For people engaged in engineering work, buying vegetables can also improve their mental arithmetic level, that is, improve their working ability and save money for their families.
Men can exercise their creativity and patience by doing housework. I have always thought that cooking is a pediatrics, and it will be difficult to really practice. Just looking at a few recipes and pictures to make a delicious dish is absolutely insane. The amount of materials used and the collocation of dishes all require patient experiments, creative collocation and continuous summarization and innovation in practice. Cooking can be simple instant noodles or hot rice. At first, I really thought that a simple daily four dishes and one soup was as difficult as 200 lines of code.
Men can cultivate their logical thinking ability by doing housework. You need to work carefully step by step, and the tasks of each step need to be clear, so as to ensure the quality of the results. This is especially necessary in housework: every step needs to be smoothed before cooking, and washing powder and hangers need to be prepared before washing clothes. Separate the clothes washed by hand from those washed by the washing machine. Also, before washing clothes, check whether there is anything in the pocket of each clothes. Last time, because I didn't take out my clothes pocket, I put the USB flash drive in my wife's pocket to wash it, so I can't be careless about any small things in housework.
Men's housework is conducive to promoting mutual understanding between husband and wife and making the family more harmonious. My wife told me that every time I do housework, whether the food is delicious or not, whether the clothes are clean or not, she is sincerely happy, because she can feel my thoughtfulness and concern, which is enough. Before washing clothes, because of inexperience, I washed the USB flash drive with important documents in my wife's pocket, feeling that I helped my wife. She didn't complain at all, but patiently told me the precautions for washing clothes, and said that the USB flash drive was SSK K5 metal USB flash drive. When I bought it, I said it was waterproof, but I didn't expect it to be waterproof, and the files on the USB flash drive were not lost. I am glad that the powerful function of SSK disk bought a bill for my carelessness, and I am even more glad that I have such an understanding and good wife.
How should children cultivate housework 1 clear the table?
Training ability: this wiping action will use a lot of limbs, so that children can practice big limb ability.
Step 1. Give children exclusive appliances.
Give the child a few pieces of small rags that belong to him, and let the child participate in it when his mother clears the table in the near future. This exclusive appliance can make him feel valued and affirmed, and realize the importance of his personal participation.
Start practicing from a small place
Let the children learn to deal with the small-scale desktop after eating. This small-scale wiping is the initial exercise. Give him a small rag, adults clear the table after dinner, and give children a good demonstration.
Skillfully wipe on a large scale.
After a small period of wiping, you can start a wide range of sports, such as cleaning the table and floor. Of course, it is impossible for a child to clean thoroughly at first. The mother can say to the child: I will start here, you will start there, and then switch places when we are all in the middle. ? Then, what the child didn't clean at first will be wiped by his mother, and the child can practice the wiping action and enjoy the fruits of his own efforts.
Housework 2 storage
Training ability: the premise of learning to store things is to know where to put them, which can train children to manage things in an orderly and systematic way.
Step 1 Clearly plan the storage area.
Most of the housework at home is related to storage. Let everything go back to its original storage place, which is storage. For children, you can start by putting their own cups and toys, but parents should first plan the obvious storage location so that children can know where to put things.
Parents demonstrate together.
After coming home from kindergarten, if you ask your children to put their schoolbags in a fixed place, you might as well put 1 small basket by the door and a basket for dad's briefcase next to it. Dad will put the schoolbag in the basket as soon as he gets off work and show it to the children several times. He will naturally get into the habit of putting his bag in the basket.
Housework 3 folds of clothes
Training ability: Small muscles must be dexterous enough and have good hand-eye coordination, so that clothes can be folded neatly, and folding clothes can also train these two motor skills at the same time.
Step 1 from your own clothes? Play? rise
When a mother is folding clothes, she might as well take her children to do it together to prevent them from being bored and crying. Give him 1 his own little clothes or handkerchief first and let him stand by? Play? Clothes. Of course, mother can also ask him to fold it together. As long as the child has a folding action, the mother will encourage him.
Let your children do it with you.
? Fold clothes? This action is unfamiliar to children. At first, he certainly didn't know how to start. At this time, you might as well play with your children. Can you do this with me? Small game, let him draw a gourd ladle and fold clothes slowly step by step. When a child can fold a dress more smoothly, he must be encouraged in time: Wow! You're amazing! What beautiful folds! ?
Housework 4 sets of utensils and chopsticks
Training ability: Setting chopsticks requires not only enough small muscle ability to hold chopsticks stably, but also good logical pairing concept to determine the required number of chopsticks.
Step 1 First, confirm the development degree of small muscle movements.
Let children learn to set chopsticks and distribute spoons before eating. However, first of all, it depends on whether the child's height is enough and whether the small muscles are mature. Then, the child is required to put the dishes and chopsticks on the table according to the number of people and practice precise small muscle movements.
Put it by position.