My mother-in-law is small, hardworking, gentle, kind, crying and timid, and always thinks of others. I have never walked out of the mountains in my life, and now I have come to a tropical city in the south because of my son.
I first came here a month before I was going to have my eldest daughter. Wearing a pink coat, I followed my husband into the house. Although I am very enthusiastic and considerate, I prepared cool clothes and daily necessities for her and taught her to use various electrical appliances. However, she is still very restrained and nervous. The inferiority of rural people made her afraid to contact the outside world for fear of being looked down upon.
Now, because my father-in-law is here, she has changed a lot! However, there are two things that really drive me crazy:
? First, I am a person who feels that everyone in my family should be equal since I was a child. And my mother-in-law, who cooks more and eats less, gives everything to others. Every time there is a big plate of meat and vegetables on the dinner table, she just doesn't eat it, no matter what. My husband and I are going crazy. I said that this is not a famine era, and there is no need to scrimp. She listened then, and it will be the same next time.
Second, love to cry: I am not a person who loves to cry, and I can't see others crying. My mother-in-law is made of water. One day, I asked her if her leg was better. She said that her leg was all right, but it occasionally broke out. It is much better to come to Fuzhou than to work in my hometown, but I feel sorry for us. Then look at the ceiling at 45 degrees and tears will come! I left at that time. I really didn't like to see her cry and let me bully her. It will also be because I said that the child has a cold and is uncomfortable, and the tears are coming again! I don't know whether to cry or laugh. My daughter-in-law is also very hard! Take care of your mother-in-law's little emotions everywhere!
Now is her second visit to Fuzhou, and she has lived with her parents-in-law for almost 3 years! Every year in the hottest summer vacation, my husband will send them back to their hometown. They walked thousands of miles, leaving everything at home to help us. All they can do is let them go home once a year.
My mother-in-law, traveling from south to north, is different, because loving a man together, although not having the same feelings as mother and daughter, can still coexist peacefully. Mother-in-law is very good, never pointing fingers and making irresponsible remarks; I'm not bad either. I respect her and understand her. I try not to let her do what I can.
? Understanding, understanding, tolerance, care and love are the best medicine to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.