As parents, the last thing you want is for your children to leave your side.

But as children grow up, most of them will eventually leave their parents for different reasons and live independently, or study abroad, work abroad, settle down abroad, or marry far away. Field. Today we will talk about daughters marrying far away.

Marrying far away and being filial are actually two different things. Marrying far away does not necessarily mean you are unfilial, and marrying nearby does not necessarily mean you will be filial. Isn’t the man who lives in a bungalow and his parents live in a sheepfold a good example? It’s really boring to have everything hijacked by morality nowadays. If you don't marry, you will be said to be unfilial and inconsiderate, making the elderly worry; if you marry far away, you will be said to be unfilial and not considerate of taking care of the elderly. It doesn’t matter if you get married, or if you don’t get married. Everyone has something to say.

My best friend Xiao Zhou said that I married far away very early. Although it was only a day's drive back home, I really couldn't go back if I wanted to. The main reason is that my father-in-law and mother-in-law don't like me to go back, because if I go back, no one will do the work at home, and the children are young and can't live without others. It was rare for the child to have a vacation. Two days after we brought him home, our mother-in-law called us to urge us to go back.

Something happened at home last year. I wanted to fly back right away, but at that time I had just given birth to my second child. Although I was in confinement, it was not convenient for me to walk such a long distance with my baby. My mother-in-law didn’t agree with me running back like this. In the past few years since I got married, I have always felt guilty towards my family. When I was unhappy, there was no one to listen to my complaints.

Colleague Sisi said, I have a friend who is married from a distant place, and she is also an only child. She married from Guiyang to Jiangmen, Guangdong. But she is also a filial girl. In winter, I will take my parents to Jiangmen. It is warm there and it is easier for my parents to spend the winter. We can also celebrate the New Year together. When her parents return to Guiyang in the summer, she will also take advantage of the summer vacation to return to Guiyang to take care of her parents.

Do you think it is unfilial to such a distantly married woman? What is filial piety? Filial piety means knowing how to be grateful. Treat your parents with gratitude and actions. As long as you can treat your parents with gratitude, why should you care about marrying far away? How can you be filial if you don't know how to be grateful and marry someone close to you?

My best friend Xiao Dan said that I have no regrets about marrying far away. The only regret I have is that I took too little care of my parents. I am fortunate to have my brother and sister-in-law at home to take care of my parents. When I married far away, I had these things in mind.

That’s why I dare to marry far away. If my parents were the only daughter, I think I might not marry so far away. Even if I marry somewhere else, I have to take my parents with me. Marrying far away cannot be said to be a sign of unfilial piety, it can only be said to be a regret in life. If you miss your daughter, fly there to see her, or take the high-speed train and meet her on the same day.