At that time, someone on the internet said that he had done this, and his husband no longer worked overtime for entertainment and stayed at home with his wife. My wife doesn't work or go shopping, but she is devoted to her husband.
Is it a good thing or a bad thing that couples who are busy on weekdays really get along with each other and stare at each other?
0 1. Jianming: "I won't leave home after the divorce. I have a home again!"
After my wife and I divorced because of emotional discord, I didn't find a place to live for a while, so I didn't move out. They live under the same roof, but they are strangers who hate each other. They ignored each other and went their separate ways.
When the epidemic came, we could not work, so we stayed at home all day. When the meal is always finished, you need to buy daily necessities. When she put on a mask and was ready to go out, I really couldn't bear it. I always feel that as soon as I open the door, there will be a scourge outside. What should she do with such a weak woman?
So, I took the initiative to take on all the responsibilities needed to go out, such as delivering takeout and buying food. When I don't know what to buy, I video with her in the supermarket, and she says I'll take whatever I buy.
After that, our rigid relationship began to ease, and we would cook together, sit on the sofa and watch TV together, and clean and disinfect our home together. Unconsciously, our feelings slowly warmed up. Now, we have planned to remarry as soon as the epidemic is over!
Bian Xiao: It's a good thing for two people under the same roof. Especially under the threat of epidemic, people are in panic. At this time, it is a great comfort to have company and give them spiritual support.
At the same time, when you find that the person who once looked down on himself will seriously disinfect his home and take the initiative to take on the responsibility of going out, a sense of security will arise.
In this special period, the sense of security greatly meets your psychological needs, and two people are more likely to have love.
02. Liang Yun: "This is a great test of long-distance love!"
My buddy told me that he obviously lives in a neighborhood with his girlfriend, but it seems like a long-distance relationship. He only meets once every half month, less than five minutes. But I want to say, what should I do with a real long-distance relationship?
Girlfriend is from other provinces. Now that the road is closed, I can't go to see her. I am worried about her safety, whether she can buy food there, whether she will be bored at home, whether she will go out often, whether she will wear a mask when she goes out, and most importantly, whether she will be afraid without me.
In addition to video chatting with her every day to relieve boredom, I try to make her happy, tell her not to go out, be good, and buy some masks for free. Fortunately, she has always been optimistic and cheerful, always saying that I am too anxious and a little melodramatic.
I can't meet each other, it's a long distance, and many contradictions and quarrels are inevitable, but I finally understand how important it is for two people to feel interdependent when an emergency comes, and how important she is to me.
I believe these difficulties will not overwhelm us. I'll marry her home as soon as the epidemic is over! Let you live together all your life!
Bian Xiao: Death anxiety makes us more aware of things that are easily overlooked, such as the efforts of others and our own inner needs.
An epidemic is enough to see the warmth of the world and remind us that life is so fragile and precious. We should hold the warmth in our hands, cherish it and not let it slip away.
03. Xin Wei: "This is a good opportunity to repair feelings!"
The epidemic kept us all at home, and what I had deliberately concealed gradually surfaced. My husband and I have long been strangers. I just chose forbearance for my son, but suddenly one day, my son asked me, "Why don't you talk to my father?"
Over the years, I have been working hard for this family. I am not willing to spend a penny, but my relationship with my husband is getting weaker and weaker. I do all the housework at home, washing and cooking, and my husband has been working and socializing. Even at home, my husband will only lie on the sofa and play with his mobile phone.
At the urging of my son, my husband reluctantly got up and cleaned the house with us, carefully disinfecting every corner. At that time, our family cooperated very tacitly. Looking at the clean new home, we suddenly had a wonderful feeling.
After that, with the help of my son, our contact became more and more. He will help me wash dishes and sweep the floor, study delicious food together, we will also play hoop games together, and he will also do aerobics after dinner.
The days are always changing subtly. One night when I was sleeping, he suddenly hugged me from behind and told me that this time reminded him of our despair when we got married and our feelings when we were in love. I'm very happy that we both found our original heart.
Bian Xiao: After two people have been together for a long time, their love will be erased little by little by the reality of daily necessities. I am busy with my work every day, even if I say a few words after work, because the other person is "very tired", the air becomes dull.
When two people really put down their work and social activities, without the influence of those external factors, they can devote themselves to each other and do things that they usually have no chance to do. Getting along with each other day and night, their feelings gradually warmed up, stronger than before.
Indeed, as Xin Wei said, the current epidemic is actually a good opportunity to repair the morbid marriage!
Two people can try what they promised together, but they don't have time to do for each other, such as cooking together, playing games together, exercising together, watching movies together, and so on, and try to re-create a warm feeling.
If there is a contradiction between two people, they always escape in the past, but now they have enough time to communicate and exchange to solve these potential "time bombs".
Although the epidemic is difficult, it does give us a rare opportunity to face ourselves again, see the essence of life again and see our potential needs, which also urges us to make up our minds.
It may be to show your mind to that important person, to spend time with your parents and family, or to have a good look at the great rivers and mountains on earth. Really do it, promise you a lifetime, depend on each other day and night!
Disaster will bring huge losses and psychological trauma, but at the same time, it will also make people know how to cherish the preciousness of the present.
I hope this epidemic will pass soon, and everyone can bravely pursue the life they really want!