In life, many times, I don’t start doing something for a long time, not because I am lazy, but because I always want to make a good plan, look for a good opportunity, and then take it seriously. Although it was a good idea to think so at the beginning, I pushed back time and time again, resulting in many things not being started in time and executed immediately.

If you have such an idea, it will often make people stay at a stuck point and be unable to take action, just like writing an article without writing for a long time. Then the article will not matter whether it is good or bad. It may appear in front of the world, just like this article of mine. I seemed to have started writing it very early, but I was reluctant to start writing it. It took me a month to write it.

This kind of problem must be corrected. Only by getting on the road early can we find the path we really want to take earlier. So if you encounter something of little concern, start doing it as soon as you think of it. , it may not be so perfect in the process of doing it, but at least it has started, and this will give more opportunities to make corrections.

I wrote this article at two o'clock in the morning. After participating in an event, I returned to the dormitory after the performance and was exhausted. I didn't wake up until ten o'clock. Well, I was sleepy again. I fell asleep on the wrong side and couldn't fall asleep for a long time. I started thinking about the book I had recently read, "Heaven to the Left, Shenzhen to the Right." This book was once made into the TV series "Ten Years of Love". Whether it is a novel or a TV series, it is fascinating. It's very depressing, and the details of the story are worth pondering.

Shenzhen, if you have money, you can be proud of your money; if you have no money but have a future, you can be proud of the future; if you have no money and no future, you can only pretend to be proud.

Shenzhen is a cruel city with no leeway. For ordinary workers, getting sick is too luxurious. A day without going to work means a day without food.

Shenzhen is a city that people love and hate. Because of its hard walls, cold heart, and fragile life.

There is no longer an indestructible love, the eternal oath is too easy to be defeated, and no matter how strong the relationship is, it cannot compete with the ubiquitous temptation. If you are a beautiful girl, you must marry a rich man. Since you will end up being abandoned and your hard-working youth will only be exchanged for a piece of divorce paper, why should you let your beauty surrender to poverty? If you are a handsome young man, , please remember today's shame: your love will never be able to compete with the temptation of money. You cry and beg in every possible way, but your beautiful girlfriend still has to throw herself into the arms of a rich man. So, let hatred lead you to make money. When you get rich, you can seduce other people's beautiful girlfriends.

There is no more life-and-death friendship. If you can make a fortune by betraying you, no one will give up money to ask for you. A good brother when you are drunk, a true friend who swears by you, and a stranger when you are down and out.

"No one cares about you, so you don't need to care about others," "In this city, money is more important than your wife, and a temporary residence permit is better than all your friends."

Shenzhen It is a city where achievements speak for themselves. Making money is the last word. If you can’t make money, everything you say is useless

Love in Shenzhen is very pure. It starts with the body and ends with the body. No one will say anything. Love, love, no one needs to be responsible for anyone.

If you love him, send him to Shenzhen, he may get rich; if you don't love him, send him to Shenzhen, he will definitely betray.

A beggar said: It’s not cold here in winter, it’s great! A migrant worker said: The salary is high. I worked for four years and built a building in my hometown. Everyone thought I made a fortune. A lady sitting at the desk said: It costs three hundred to chat with you and one thousand five hundred to stay overnight. When my sister graduates from college, I will quit. A white-collar worker said: I have been here for six years and bought an apartment. I am under a lot of pressure. I just want to find a stable job. A boss said: Money determines everything. There is no life without money.

The hometown of Pengniao. The city of dreams. The abyss of desire. A city that cannot love. Fallen utopia. Jerusalem has lost its faith. But you know, all metaphors are meaningless.

You are standing in the bustling night of Shenzhen, looking confused, looking around, like a homeless child; you are floating in every corner, they cannot see you, they step on you and collide with you. You, I can touch you as soon as I stretch out my hand. You are so scared, like the crying child in the crowd, you huddle up and dodge everywhere, but you never want to go away.

This book is based on three roommates in a dormitory who are not very good at playing: Xiao Ran, Liu Yuan, and Chen Qiming, plus two girls related to them: Han Ling and Sun Yumei. After they graduated and worked hard in Shenzhen, they became what they needed to be when they were young based on the path they originally chose. However, they lost their original aspirations.

Xiao Ran, an orphan who was so poor that he had no dignity, fell in love with Han Ling, but did not have the courage to confess his love. After Han Ling took a step towards him, the lovers finally got married. However, poverty still limits his love. Facing Han Ling's outstanding suitor, Xiao Ran is sensitive and inferior. He made a promise to Han Ling: "I will make a lot of money so that you can live a prosperous life." After graduation, he went to Shenzhen and worked hard to become a billionaire.

The promise was fulfilled, but the original intention was forgotten. He played with Hong Kong girls, slept with actors, had mistresses, and had mistresses. He loved Han Ling in his heart, but he couldn't give her the companionship she wanted. His way of love was to buy a big house with money, which ultimately led to Han Ling left disappointed, only to realize that he couldn't do it without her. He frantically searched for what he had lost along the way, but the traces had long been washed away by time. In the end, the load in his heart was too heavy to bear, and he committed suicide.

Liu Yuan, who comes from a cadre family, has a natural sense of superiority, "My dad can..., my dad's work unit can...", yes, his dad's work unit has everything except not being able to send a wife. It was precisely because his father's employer could not send him a wife that he fell down while pursuing Han Ling and shattered his sense of superiority. I have always had a dream: to go home with Han Ling after graduation, and his father will arrange jobs for them, get married and have children, and live a happy life... After the light of the dream goes out, I plan to go to Shenzhen to work hard, but my career has been ups and downs. Being frustrated frequently in love, living into your thirties is neither a success nor a failure.

Han Ling, from a single-parent family, is kind-hearted and loved by everyone. For her, as long as love exists, it doesn't matter whether she has bread or not. Faced with the superior Liu Yuan and the poor Xiao Ran, she resolutely chooses the Xiao Ran she loves. At school, she and Xiao Ran are still very happy even though they can't eat three meals a day. After graduation, I went to Xiao Ran, who was a little successful. I spent less and less time with him, and I became more and more depressed. After having two abortions and unable to reproduce, I was depressed all day long. I kept many things in my heart and just hoped. Xiao Ran could see her unhappiness, but as Xiao Ran ignored her again and again, the resentment became deeper and deeper. Finally, when Xiao Ran even forgot her birthday and went to have fun with other women, it finally broke out. once. After that, we often quarreled and disagreed over big and small things. What I thought was as follows:

We have been living together for three years, and we are becoming more and more familiar with each other, but they also seem to be becoming more and more unfamiliar. In the tedious details of life, in the quarrels and silences, everything seems to have changed. Sweet words are no longer mentioned, hugs and kisses are becoming less and less, and even sex life has lost its passion. The vows we once believed in, now seem like a joke that cannot stand scrutiny. Didn't you say that you want to live forever? Why can't you accommodate something as small as eating? If you can tolerate outsiders, why do you get into a big fight if you don't get what you want in front of your dearest people?

After countless accumulations, I finally bought a bottle of sleeping pills and swallowed it late at night. I wanted to die. But sometimes, living is difficult and dying is not easy. I was saved. After being rescued, she received long-lost care and rekindled the passion for life. However, Xiao Ran cheated again. The mistress called Han Ling. They truly loved each other. She said she was pregnant and asked Han Ling to leave Xiao Ran. Previously, Han Ling The spirit has been deceiving itself, the mystery is revealed, and it completely collapses

Man is a self-deceiving animal. There is something that you clearly know is there. As long as you don’t see it, you can keep telling yourself : That’s false, it doesn’t exist. Until one day it really runs in front of you, ferocious, ferocious, and bloody, then you will realize that everything is unreliable and everything is fake.

I chose divorce, returned to my mother, and lived a life alone. I loved you, but it was not suitable to live together until Xiao Ran died.

Chen Qiming, a Beijing resident, doesn’t have to worry about anything after graduation. In the eyes of others, he is already very lucky, but others think it is not enough. I didn't want to struggle, so I wanted to marry a rich woman. However, I was lucky enough to marry the daughter of a wealthy village chief, a woman who was so ugly that people couldn't bear to look at her. She had no education and the two could not communicate. So Chen Qiming has been looking for his own love, using the money he earns to support his mistress (Sun Yumei, a gold-worshiping girl, who sells her body and soul for money to achieve her goals, burns bridges and turns her back on others). I have failed in everything I have done for half my life, failed in business, failed in being a husband, failed in being a father, failed in being a lover, failed in being a friend... After his son disappeared, he discovered the good things about his wife and began to try to change his ways.

In that luxuriant world, love is nothing, friendship between classmates is nothing, love between husband and wife is nothing, and even personality is nothing. It’s time to cheat, cheat, betray, and put down your dignity. You have to let go. Money is everything, but money and happiness are not directly proportional, but a parabolic relationship.

Shenzhen is the place with the most opportunities in Chinese cities. No matter whether I can make a career there, at least I won’t have to live a life of eating and waiting to die. I know that I may not necessarily How capable you are of becoming a member of the upper class, but as long as you go, it will change your destiny. Born in a very remote and poor mountain village, if this trip can achieve success and make myself capable, then I think I should be able to change my hometown and change the fate of many people. Even if you can't, then at least you have gained knowledge. The most important thing for young people is knowledge. Whether it is success or failure, it is growth, growth. There is no failure or success, only speed.

In this book, Both Xiao Ran and Han Ling have my shadow. Xiao Ran has the kind of inferiority brought about by his native family, the kind of psychology that is particularly eager for success, and wants to make the people he loves live a better life through his own efforts. A feeling of happy life.

So I think if we can keep our original intention and work hard like Xiao Ran did, and don't follow her path, it must be a good reference.

Always put the people you love first and work hard not to break their hearts. My personality is very similar to Han Ling's, that is, I won't take the initiative to speak out about many things, and hide them in my heart waiting to be discovered, because I feel that this way it will appear that the person cares about me. And this often brings great harm to oneself. Others' neglect and turning a blind eye will add layers of sadness and shadow to one's heart, and cast layer after layer of sadness on one's heart. The veil is difficult to uncover, and it is easy to become depressed. But after Xiao Ran became rich in the book. Han Ling stopped working, gave up her career, gave up her friends, gave up all her hobbies, and only loved Xiao Ran. This is something we should not imitate. When you love someone, you can only give up part of your love. Give it to him, but not give it all to him. Only in this way can you have enough energy to get love from other places, and you won't spend the whole day trying to figure out whether a man loves you or not. Also, Han Ling stopped growing and didn't touch anything new. I think it is a very sad thing for a person to only grow old without growing up, so we should take this as a warning and not stop growing.