In the play, both Ouyang Xu and Fan disapprove of Zhao's opening a teahouse. Ouyang Xu believes that the status of businesswomen is too low to be worthy of literati. Gu doesn't want Zhao to run around, but he feels too eager to prove himself. His hands are faster than his brain and he is prone to problems.
The same is not in favor, but the motives behind it are quite different. Care about what you care about and let you do what you like.
In the face of your fault, there are both protection and criticism.
In the face of zhong quan's trap and meeting with him, Zhao has made a clear mistake. Gu first ensured Zhao's safety, and then criticized her fault. This order is very important, first solve the current problems, and then help her grow up for a long time.
Unlike some boyfriends who talk eloquently but have low emotional intelligence, preaching from the perspective of God when there is a problem can neither solve the problem nor provide emotional value. While Gu was away, Zhao looked forward to his return and said some harsh but useful words to her. If I love you, I will brake for you when necessary.
It is sincere to express feelings, but cautious to make promises.
There are many classic confessions in the play now. My death point is you, humble Jing and Gu Zhao. But when Zhao asked him, "What is our relationship?" He is very cautious. If he can't think of it, he can't just say it. Cautious because he is really thinking about how to include you in his long-term plan. If you are not in his long-term plan, this relationship is insincere.
Because he loves you, he can love my house and my dog.
Zhang Zaixiangfu was led by his sister. Although Gu didn't like his father, she also promised to help take care of him. You still carry music scores and recipes with you, just to get on well with your family. At the same time, I will not give them the warmth of your painting. In The Road Few People Walk, it is said that true love means loving yourself and others. Love can make yourself and others grow.