First, what girls want is the attitude of boys. For details, please see the part about how Xiaoxian and Nuolan broke up at the end of "Love 4", and the clip in "Reply 94" about what girls should do about the smell of paint with the windows closed and the smell of soot with the windows open.

Secondly, when girls are unhappy, what they usually need is nothing more than a brother who shares the same hatred and dares to pick up a guy to fight for you, a girlfriend who is spicy, warm, smart and smart, and has the ability to protect you from the wind and rain. The mentor functions as a chicken soup type of loved one for the soul. You have to shoulder the heavy burden of one person and multiple roles at this time.

However, when most people are unhappy, they are not willing to go to their parents, be educated, or be fed chicken soup! Share it, share it, be empathetic. Even if you think your girlfriend is just fooling around, try to think with her brain and feel with her heart. Let’s scold together enough, be mean, make trouble, be sad, complain enough. , the matter passed.

When she is angry, she can feel that you are also cursing with her hands on her hips. When she is sad, she can feel that you have also experienced such pain. You are more experienced than her, so let her become powerful instead of helpless.

For example, if you are bullied (it doesn’t matter if she thinks she is being bullied!), what’s going on if you are not filled with indignation but instead try to persuade her? ! This kind of grouping with outsiders will only make her more unhappy. Even if you are a bystander, the education can wait until afterwards. Don't turn your elbows outward, as the girl will feel very powerless.

Maybe if you yell with her for a while, she will not be so angry, but will say oh, don’t be so fierce, the matter will be over, forget it, don’t worry about it. Usually this is OK. What if, you educate her, even if you think it is a trivial matter or say something like a sea that embraces all rivers and has tolerance, then you will be miserable.

Third, if you are unhappy about something serious, don’t cry when she cries. Solving the problem is the key. Don't look like you are too weak and useless, so as not to make her feel insecure and create a generation gap. I thought that next time something happens, I'd better stop talking and don't look for you. If I can't help but add trouble, it's better to find a reliable uncle. The key is that you have to work hard to find a way to solve the problem, and still be willing to do it even if you can't solve it. No girl likes a coward.

Fourth, do what you like. Love fashion, my card, spend whatever you want. If you love delicious food, have one of each and I'll pay for it. Take charge of this yourself.