The full text of Disciples' Rules:

Disciples' Rules, sage training, first filial piety, second sincere letter.

Love people, be kind, and learn literature if you have spare capacity.

when you enter, you should be filial to your parents, and you should not be slow, and your parents should not be lazy.

parents should listen to what they teach, and they should be responsible and obedient.

it's warm in winter, and it's sultry in summer, and it's economical in the morning, and it's calm when you're sleepy.

if you go out, you must report it, but if you go against it, you must face it, live in a regular place, and your career will remain unchanged.

although things are small, don't be good at it. If you are good at it, you will lose money.

although things are small, don't hide them privately. If you hide them privately, it will hurt your heart.

if you love what you love, you can do what you can, and if you hate what you love, you are willing to go.

physical injury makes parents worry, while moral injury makes parents feel ashamed.

dear me, it's hard to be filial. hate me and be filial to Fang xian.

I've had a close relationship, and advice makes me more, pleasing my color and softening my voice.

if you don't enter the remonstrance, you will be pleased to reply to the remonstration, and you will cry and complain.

if a parent is ill, try the medicine first, and stay in bed day and night.

after three years of mourning, I often grieve and swallow, and my living place changes, and I have no wine and meat.

make a funeral, offer a sincere sacrifice, and serve the dead as if they were living.

when you are out, your brothers are friends, your brothers are respectful, your brothers are harmonious, and your filial piety is in the middle.

if you have light possessions, you will have no resentment, but if you are patient with your words, you will lose your anger.

either eat or sit, the elderly first, the young later.

if you call someone long, you will call them on their behalf. If you are not there, you will arrive.

call your elders, don't call them by their names, and don't look at their abilities.

Lu Yu is long, but he is impatient, and he is silent for a long time.

it takes more than a hundred steps to get off the horse and get off the bus.

the elderly stand, the young don't sit, the elderly sit, and life is to sit.

before you respect your elders, you should keep your voice low. It's not appropriate to keep your voice low.

advance is inevitable, retreat is inevitable, ask about right, but don't move.

be a father, be a father, be a brother, be a brother.

early in the morning, late at night, easy to get old, cherish this time.

wash in the morning, rinse your mouth, urinate, and clean your hands.

the crown must be straight, the knot must be tied, and the socks and shoes must be cut tightly.

wear a crown suit, which has a fixed position. Don't mess up and make it dirty.

clothes are expensive and clean, not expensive and luxurious, and they are called home after going up.

don't be choosy about your diet. Eat moderately, but don't overdo it.

when you are young, don't drink. Being drunk is the ugliest.

take your time, stand upright, bow deep and round, and be respectful.

don't walk on the threshold, limp, crouch, or shake your moustache.

Open the curtain slowly, without sound, turn wide and don't touch the edge.

hold the virtual device, such as holding the surplus, and enter the virtual room, if there is someone.

Don't be too busy, too busy to make mistakes, too afraid of difficulties and too careless.

Never go near a noisy fight, and never ask questions about strange things.

you will get started, ask who will save, go to class, and your voice will be heard.

when people ask who they are, it's not clear who they are, me and me.

when using characters, you must ask clearly. If you don't ask, it is stealing.

if you borrow someone, you should return it in time. If you borrow something, don't be embarrassed.

whenever you speak, you should believe first, cheat and be false, and you can't be ridiculous.

it's better to talk more than to talk less, but it's better not to be clever.

swear words, dirty words, and market sentiment, cut them off.

don't talk lightly when you see something that isn't true, and don't pass it on lightly when you know something that isn't.

don't neglect your promise, if you neglect your promise, advance and retreat.

every word should be heavy and comfortable. Don't be hasty and vague.

what he says is long, and what he says is short. It's none of your business, so don't be idle.

See the goodness of people, that is, Si Qi, and go far vertically to meet gradually.

when people are evil, that is, introspection. If there is something, they will be corrected, and there will be no police.

only learn by virtue, only talent, not as good as people, and be self-disciplined.

if you wear clothes, if you eat and drink, you are not as good as people, so don't be sad.

if you smell anger, you will find pleasure in it, and your friends will be harmed, but your friends will be benefited.

I'm afraid of fame, I'm overjoyed, I'll forgive you, and I'll gradually meet you.

unintentional is called wrong, intentional is called evil.

if you can change too much, you will lose it. if you cover it up, you will gain a fault.

love all people, all people must love, the sky is the same, and the earth is the same.

those who walk high have a high reputation, and people value them, not high looks.

those who are talented are arrogant, and people are convinced, not big words.

don't be selfish if you have the ability, and don't be contemptuous if you can.

don't flatter the rich, don't be arrogant and poor, don't be tired of the old, and don't like the new.

when people are not idle, don't stir things up, people are uneasy and don't talk.

people have shortcomings, so don't talk about them, and people have private things, so don't talk about them.

being good means being good. The more people know it, the more they think about it.

to promote others' evil is evil. If the disease is very serious, it will be a disaster.

if you are good at advising each other, you will build both morality and morality. If you go beyond the rules, you will lose both ways.

where you take, you can tell, and you should take more, and you should take less.

if you want to add people, ask yourself first. If you don't want them, you should do it quickly.

if you want to repay kindness, you will forget resentment. If you complain short, you will repay kindness long.

being a servant is expensive, but kind and generous.

power convinces people, but not the heart. If you convince people, you will be speechless.

people are the same, with different classes, popular customs, and benevolent people hope.

people who eat nuts are afraid, outspoken and unattractive.

being kind to others is infinitely good, making progress in virtue and living less.

unkind, infinite harm, small people advance, everything is bad.

spare no effort to learn literature, but if you learn literature, you will become flashy.

but practice, don't learn literature, be opinionated, and ignore truth.

there are three ways to study, one is to be honest, the other is to believe.

when you read this, don't admire him, and don't get up until this is over.

be wide, work hard, and the time is up.

if you have doubts, follow the notes, and people will ask questions and seek truth.

the rooms are clean, the walls are clean, several cases are clean, and the pen and ink stone are correct.

if the ink grinds slightly, the mind will be improper, the words will be disrespectful, and the heart will get sick first.

List the classics, with a fixed place. After reading them, restore them.

although it is urgent, it should be rolled up neatly, and if there is any defect, it should be made up.

if it is not a holy book, it will hide your intelligence and bad your mind.

don't be self-critical, don't give up, and be sage and virtuous.

Translation:

At home, when parents call us, we should answer immediately as soon as we hear it, and don't answer slowly.

if our parents want us to do something, we should act quickly, and don't delay or be too lazy to do it.

when parents want us to learn well and teach us, we must be respectful and not casual, and we must listen to our hearts.

if our parents blame us for our mistakes, we should obey and bear the mistakes, and we should not disobey them and make them sad.

As children, we should pay attention to whether parents wear warm clothes and live in warm places in winter.

In summer, consider whether parents feel cool. Get up every morning, be sure to visit your parents and ask if you are well; When you come back in the evening, you must also greet your parents.

When you go out, tell your parents where you want to go. When you get home, you must meet your parents to make them feel at ease.

there is a certain order in daily life, and we don't change what we do casually. ?

Although things are small, don't make decisions without telling your parents. If you act arbitrarily, it will be detrimental to your duties as a child. Although things are small, don't hide them secretly behind your parents' backs. Parents must be very sad when they know about them.

parents should try their best to prepare everything they like, and children should carefully exclude everything they dislike.

If our bodies are hurt, it will definitely bring sorrow to our parents. If our character is missing, it will make our parents feel humiliated and lose face. ?

It is very natural that parents love their children and children can be filial to their parents. What is the difficulty of such filial piety?

if parents hate us, but they can still be filial, then it is commendable.

It is generally believed that children have the obligation to be filial only after parents have paid something to their children. What is the difference between this and bargaining in the vegetable market? ?

When parents are at fault, their children must be remonstrated and corrected, but when remonstrated, they must never keep a straight face, keep an expression, be gentle and cheerful, and speak softly and peacefully.

If parents don't accept our advice, we should wait until parents are happy.

If parents still stubbornly refuse to listen, people with filial piety can't bear to let their parents fall into injustice, and even cry aloud to beg their parents to mend their ways, even if they are scolded by their parents, they will have no complaints. When parents have diseases, children must taste the boiled soup first, whether it is too cold or too hot.

No matter day or night, you should serve your parents, and you should not leave your parents too far at will. When your parents are seriously ill, you need someone to take care of them most, especially if your children can accompany you and take care of their daily lives, which is the most warm and satisfying thing for parents.

When our parents are seriously ill at the end of their lives, can we, as children, give up this opportunity because we are busy with our careers or have no time? ?

When parents die unfortunately, they must be in mourning for three years. During the mourning period, they often cry because they miss their parents, and the place where they live has become simple, and they have given up drinking and eating meat.

When handling parents' funerals, we should follow the etiquette, not be sloppy, and be sincere when offering sacrifices.

Treat your parents who have passed away with the same respect as before. ? Why do you want to do this?

Confucius said: "Children are born for three years before they leave their parents' arms, and they can eat by themselves, so that their parents can breathe a little sigh of relief. As children, why can't we always miss our parents and love them during the three-year mourning period?"

In life, our parents are closest to us and give us the most kindness. Only by studying the etiquette of serving our parents hard, taking filial piety as a big undertaking and operating with heart can we stand between heaven and earth.

Filial piety does not necessarily make our family rich or have a garden villa to live in, but filial piety can establish a natural and harmonious order and let us live in a peaceful and enjoyable environment.

If home is a person's fortress, filial piety is the cornerstone under the fortress. One more filial piety, one more guarantee for the family. Let's use filial piety to make the family an impregnable fortress.

treat the money and goods used outside the body lightly and care less, so that there will be no resentment between brothers; Don't be too impulsive when you speak. If you hurt your feelings, you should be able to hold back, and then unnecessary conflicts and resentment will disappear. ?

In daily life, some people think that children are still young, get along with their elders, don't ask too much of them, they will naturally adapt when they grow up, and even pamper their children, giving them what is delicious and easy to use first, so that children take it for granted and don't know how to be polite to their elders, thus misleading them to develop bad habits.

Disciples' Rules, on the other hand, instructs us not to neglect the virtue of cultivating courtesy from an early age because of adults' love. Whether eating or drinking, please ask the elders to use it first; If you sit with your elders, please ask them to sit first; If you walk with your elders, you should let them go first. ?

When the elder calls someone, he hears it, so he should summon it for the elder. If the called person is not there, he should come back and report to the elder, and further ask the elder if there is anything that needs help. ?

When addressing elders, you should not call them by their first names, which is impolite. Don't show your talent and despise your elders in front of them. ?

When you meet an elder while walking, you should hurry up to salute and greet him. If the elder doesn't talk to us, just stand aside respectfully and let the elder go first.

If you are riding a horse, you should dismount when you meet your elders. If you are riding a car, you should get off, let your elders pass first, and wait for a distance of about 111 paces before you get on or get on the bus. ?

If the elders are still standing, young people should not sit down first. If the elders are sitting, we can only sit down when we are allowed to sit down.

When speaking in front of elders, your voice should be low, but the answer voice is too low to be heard clearly, which is not appropriate. You should be kind and gentle, and your voice should be soft and clear.

When you meet your elders, you should walk quickly and behave politely. When you leave, you should quit slowly.

When the elders ask questions, they should stand up and answer, and keep their eyes on them, and don't move from side to side. ?

Treat uncles with respect like your own father, treat brothers of the same race with love like your own brother. As children, we should try to get up early in the morning and go to bed late at night, because the years of life are very limited, time is easy to pass away, and young people become old people in a blink of an eye, so we should cherish the precious time now.

You must wash your face first when you get up every morning, then brush your teeth and wash your hands after defecating. This is a good boy who pays attention to hygiene. ?

Wear a proper hat when going out, and button up when wearing clothes; Socks and shoes should be properly worn, and shoelaces should be tied tightly, so that the whole body looks neat.

the hats and clothes you take off should be placed in a place where you can't hide them. Don't throw them around to avoid wrinkles and stains.

Dressing pays attention to neatness, not to the expensive and gorgeous clothes, but also to dress according to one's own status and the family's economic situation. ?

Don't be picky about food, and eat proper portions, and don't overeat.

We are young and underage, and we shouldn't try to drink, because it is easy to show inappropriate words and deeds when we are drunk.

Take your time when walking and stand upright. Pay attention to bow down deeply when you salute, and be respectful when you bow down.

don't step on the threshold when you enter the door, avoid twisting and leaning when you stand, don't spread your dustpan with your feet or look like a tiger when you sit, and don't shake your feet or hips, so as to show an elegant and pleasant posture. ?

When you enter the door, slowly open the curtain and try not to make any noise. When you walk and turn, stay away from the corners and keep a wide distance, so as not to touch the corners and hurt your body. Be as careful with empty utensils as you are with full ones, and enter an empty room as if you were in someone's room.

Don't do things in a hurry, it is easy to make mistakes in a hurry. Don't be afraid of difficulties, hesitate to retreat, and don't be careless and perfunctory. We should not stay near places where fighting is easy to happen; There is no need to ask questions about evil and bizarre things. ?

before getting started, ask, "Is anyone there?"? When you are about to walk into the hall, first enlarge the volume to let the people in the hall know; If someone asks, "Who are you?", you should say your name when you answer. If you just say "I" or "I", the other person can't hear clearly who it is.

If we want to use other people's things, we must tell them clearly in advance. If we use them without permission, it is equivalent to stealing.

You should return the borrowed items immediately after using them, and you won't have much difficulty in borrowing them from others in case of urgent need.

These principles of common language behaviors enable us to know and act, master ourselves, make things more efficient, treat people more harmoniously, and create a harmonious environment.

If we can't do it for a while, we don't have to be discouraged. As long as we can clearly identify the direction, agree with the enlightenment of the sages, and be willing to ponder slowly with kung fu, just like a stone can slowly present beautiful jade. ?

When you speak, you should first pay attention to credit. Can fraudulent and untrue words work forever in society?

It's better to talk more than to talk less. Everything is real. Don't talk about unrealistic rhetoric. In addition, treacherous and eloquent words, dirty and indecent words and the common tone of scoundrels should be effectively eliminated.

You don't express your opinions easily before you see the truth of the matter, you don't know things clearly enough, you don't spread them easily, you think things are inappropriate, and you don't agree easily. If you agree easily, you will put yourself in a dilemma.

Speak steadily and comfortably, and don't speak too fast or too quickly, or speak vaguely.