There are all kinds of men in today's society When making friends or choosing a spouse, women always want to find a good man. In fact, whether a person is good or not can be roughly seen from his face. Let's learn about a good man's 10 standard.
Good man 10 bid 1 1, a person with good character.
The older generation often said that marriage is a product of marriage. When you are in love, you feel good about each other. With the passage of time, the passion between two people will gradually weaken, so what can be maintained in the future? This is when character comes into play. When husband and wife live to a certain stage, they are simply living with each other's personality.
When choosing a husband, you must choose a good character, because good character can guarantee marriage.
2. People who value family ties
When choosing a husband, we must see whether the other person attaches importance to family ties. Because a person who values family ties is generally well educated, responsible for the family and aware of the integrity of the family, he will take care of the family more after marriage.
3. People who know how to be grateful
Grateful people will look at their wives' efforts, understand their other half, and appreciate their other half's efforts to the family. In marriage, some men don't know how to be grateful, but only complain and blame their wives. Such people must stay away.
Step 4 understand humility
It is inevitable that there will be bumps between husband and wife, and it is impossible not to quarrel for a lifetime. A reasonable person knows how to be humble, will be humble and even compromise.
Step 5 be motivated
The key to a woman's happiness after marriage is to see if her husband can earn money to support his family. If she idles, eats, drinks and plays all day, her family will definitely not be rich.
On the contrary, if men are enterprising and earn money, women will live like a duck to water, which is the most basic guarantee.
After all, the material foundation determines the superstructure.
Step 6 be grateful
Grateful people are usually filial. He will appreciate his wife's silent efforts and naturally understand her difficulties. No matter what is going on at home or outside, he will be anxious, think of what people think, know himself well, and work together.
7. Pay attention to details
"Details decide success or failure" and "Details conquer love". After marriage, couples will inevitably encounter discordant notes in the symphony of oil, salt, sauce and tea, and the romance when they are in love will disappear. At this time, the man who loves you will care and love his wife in every detail of life.
8. be broad-minded
Broad-minded men don't haggle with women. Even if you do something wrong, he will tolerate your shortcomings. It is wise to infect you in a subtle way, instead of magnifying your own shortcomings and getting stuck in endless quarrels.
9, unnecessary difficulties, dare to sacrifice
He is always brave in the face of difficulties. He is very manly. When his family encounters difficulties, he will bear it alone and solve it alone. If he marries such a man and there is a mountain behind the woman, he will never be lonely all his life.
10, full positive energy
Such a man is honest and selfless, full of longing and hope for the future and family, and will not be affected by negative emotions around him. He will always send positive energy to his family. Over time, women will live happily in infinite reverie, and children will have a future.
Because positive people are like the sun, where it shines, negative people are the moon, and the fifteenth day of the first month is different.
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Good man 10 standard 2 1, single-minded.
A good man must love a woman wholeheartedly. Women's minds are very delicate and sensitive, and they always like to be hurt by spring for a little thing, so it is easy to feel insecure. I believe that a good man will definitely bring a sense of security to women, and there is no need to worry about the deterioration of love or the change of heart of men.
Every woman wants a man who is not entangled in the past and is responsible for his current feelings, but there are too few such men. If you have them around you, you must cherish them.
2, self-motivated, uneasy about the status quo.
Some men will let women choose between love and bread, because they have no ability to give women love and bread at the same time. In fact, it can be seen from this that this man is a man without ambition.
A really good man won't let you worry about bread, he will only keep trying to give you a better life. He will tell you with his own actions that he has been working hard for your future, and such a man is a good man.
3. Keep your word, keep your word.
Everyone can say sweet words, but few people really do it. A good man must be able to keep his promise and keep his word, so that women will not be disappointed all the time.
Whether at work or in love, it is the basic requirement for others to trust him to be consistent in words and deeds. Such a person will not give others expectations easily, but as long as he says it, it will come true. If you have such a man who is consistent in words and deeds and keeps his promise, you must be sincere, because such men are really rare.
Don't lose your temper for no reason.
There are many men who like to take their temper out on the people closest to them, which actually brings endless harm to women. No woman can accept that the person closest to her doesn't respect herself and only takes it out on herself. It is not what a good man will do to bring negative emotions to women when they are angry outside or have a bad day at work.
A good man will respect women and never lose his temper with women for no reason. No matter how depressed he is, he will try his best to adjust and never bring negative emotions into the feelings of two people.
5, will tolerate women, not male chauvinism.
A good man will share with you when you have something to do. When you make a mistake, you will think about how to help you solve it, instead of blaming you for doing it again.
He won't impose his opinion on you, nor will he ask you what you can do about it. When you meet something that needs to be decided, you will be the first to ask for your opinion, and you will take a mutually acceptable way. Getting along with such a man will make women feel respected.
My hero 10/3 1, upright and upright, knows the way of the times.
It is not easy to live in the world these days, and it is even more difficult to get along well. For men, only by knowing how to get along with the world can they eat, drink and be merry in society for a long time. How to mix? Not too hard, not too soft, not too square, not too round. Therefore, soft and hard compatibility and Fiona Fang combination are the real ways to mix the world. It is impossible for a woman to be unhappy with such a man. She is not afraid of not having food, not afraid of being bullied, not afraid of offending anyone, and she has a good life.
2, can make women laugh at any time.
There are two kinds of men who can make women laugh. The most common is glib tongue.
Type. However, this type of man is more dangerous. The most outstanding performance of glib tone is that when I face you, I can hold you to the sky and describe you better than Sister Chang 'e, which makes your heart feel good. However, behind your back, they may verbally attack you, insult you and make you uglier than a sow.
This kind of man is a typical example of hypocrisy. The man who can really make women laugh is the kind of man with humorous ability, who is neither flattering nor supercilious. With a little effort, women can shine. With such a man, life is the real life.
3, good career potential, and know how to go home.
How can a man do without a career? Without a career, the woman with her has no life security. There is not a successful man who is unpopular with women. However, most successful men already have wives, so women should stop fighting for them. It is the unmarried men who are energetic and have good career potential who should compete. Where there is potential, there is the possibility of success. However, women cannot ignore such a problem. Most career-oriented
How much interest can a man who likes to indulge in his career and ignore his family, even his family? For such a man, we must be cautious and sharp-eyed.
4, seemingly playboy, but in fact single-minded.
There is a man who is very popular with women. He is not only a woman's pistachio, but also a woman's trash can. He plays well with this woman, with that woman and with other women. Playing around seems to be very ambiguous with every woman, like a playboy. But in fact, he is not a playboy, just good at interacting with women. After he finds the woman he really wants, he will change this state and focus on one, and it is not ordinary. Don't think that there is no such man, and many women haven't found it. If you meet such a man, you should work harder.
5. Willing to serve women without losing blood.
Men seldom have the consciousness of serving women. Many seem to exist, but they are basically superficial. In fact, this kind of service is not very demanding. Be gentle with women, be polite to women, be considerate to women, understand women, be tolerant of women, trust women and be kind to women in harmonious point ... these are all services. It's a pity that many men can't do it from the heart, and even if they do it, it won't last.
What's more, the service is done, but it is too servile, doesn't look like a man, and lacks blood. Such men are despised by men and despised by women. In short, a man who sincerely serves women as a man is worth fighting for.
6. Go to the lobby and the kitchen.
In the past, "going to the hall and going to the kitchen" was the standard for men to choose a spouse. But things always change and develop, and this standard is also very useful in women's mate selection. These days, there are more men in the hall and fewer men in the kitchen; Many men who go to the kitchen are professional chefs, but they can do well but can't go to the hall. They smoke too much oil smoke in the kitchen and don't know how to mix in the hall. Don't miss it if you meet someone who has access to the kitchen under the hall. If you want something delicious, they can give it to you; To have fun, they can accompany you; Make it interesting. They can give it to you.
7. thin skin
In the face of an iceberg beauty like Ode to Joy Andy, Bao Xiao's overall face is not generally thick. First I went to Thailand, and then I shared a room with a "rogue". With the natural and unrestrained attitude of "whether to answer or not is your business, and whether to chase or not is my business", Bao Xiao has been accompanying Andy around Phuket.
Therefore, chasing girls should be thick-skinned, don't be afraid of being rejected, and have strong resistance inside.
I have a friend. He has had a crush on the beauty queen of his class since high school, but his skin is dark and a little fat. No matter how blind the beauty queen is, she won't like him. Chasing all the way until the school girl got married, he still didn't give up. The marriage of the beauty queen was not very happy, and it didn't take long for her to get divorced. The friend secretly rejoiced that this was the opportunity given to him by God, and he cheered up again. With his excellent communication skills, he brought in all the family members, relatives and friends of the beauty queen and mixed them up like a family. Now they are married and happy. As long as someone outside says that another flower is inserted in cow dung, he has the cheek to go back, and it must be nutritious cow dung.
You see, as long as men are thick-skinned, persistence is victory.
8. be careful
Have a delicate mind to design an appointment, and if the other person is in a heavy mood, arrange relaxed activities; If the other person is in a good mood, arrange a romantic surprise. For example, when Andy just broke up, Bao Xiao always took Andy on a motorcycle to relieve her depression. Just like in the movie Roman Holiday, Princess Hepburn was won by a motorcycle routine. Our little bag always rents a motorcycle and takes Andy for a ride. The small bag always stops suddenly on purpose, and Andy falls into the small bag, always with a gentle back. It's hard to say that there are no deer bumping around. Coupled with the night market, it is fresh and romantic, which can touch the hearts of almost all girls.
Speaking of delicate thoughts, tender feelings, and singer Li Jian. Such a quiet and handsome man treats his feelings with great care. Li Jian not only lived his love life as exquisitely as a poem, but also wrote a song for his wife in almost every album. Looking at his sleeping wife, he wrote a song "Birds Sleeping Next to Me". A talented person, thoughtful, always cares about beautiful women, and beautiful women will be intoxicated in their gentle hometown.
9, gentleness can also be spoiled.
Bao Xiao is always gentle and coquettish except for his fierce pursuit of love. He has always kept Andy in his heart, giving her care and warmth. Think about it, a man whose abdominal muscles are like a piano keyboard, but like a little boy, wants to hug and steal a kiss, and wants to wrap himself in a quilt as a human guardrail. In order to let Andy go out to play, throwing jiao turned out to be stealing Andy's breakfast.