While drinking and chatting, suddenly the song "Little Party" came from a classmate's mobile phone, and several buddies began to sing unconsciously. Everyone began to talk about the interesting stories of childhood and youth in those years. Of course, they talked about the stories of Xiao Fang and his first love in those years. They all seemed to fall into happy memories, and there seemed to be many regrets in their tone.
In fact, the song "Xiao Fang" is really unpretentious in terms of lyrics, and it is completely colloquial. But the fundamental reason why it can become a classic and be sung for many years is that this song touches the nerves of too many men and resonates with too many men, because every man has a good heart.
Perhaps Xiao Fang in every man's heart has different characteristics, but they all have too much in common: simplicity, kindness, beauty, thoughtfulness and gentleness, perhaps childhood playmates, perhaps the most beautiful first love, perhaps a beautiful relationship he has experienced, perhaps he is not a person at all, but a summary of all the emotions he has experienced, perhaps this is just a man's desire and ideal emotional pursuit, attached to an illusory idea. Often inadvertently evoke our aftertaste, especially when we are not satisfied with our true feelings, the aftertaste of Xiao Fang will be more intense, and some even have the impulse to go back to Xiao Fang or first love, which may be the fundamental reason why we can't forget our first love.
In fact, men's memory of Xiao Fang is hazy, because they are not sure that this Xiao Fang was once someone, or it may just be a collection of various beautiful pursuits. However, whether it is certain or uncertain, Xiao Fang always occupies an important position in every man's heart.
Why does every man have a good mind? There are actually only two reasons. One is the infinite nostalgia for childhood and youth, and I want to return to the years of innocence and youth. Unfortunately, time always goes in one direction, and time can't go back, only in our aftertaste; Second, the reality is too cruel, so we can only rely on memories to avoid the cruelty of reality, especially when the emotions we encounter now are not satisfactory and always feel that there is a gap with the ideal emotions, we will have a stronger memory of the emotions we experienced in the past, which is actually a confirmation of the emotion of "what is lost is beautiful", especially when the emotions of childhood or youth are really pure, and the emotions of adults are mixed with too much reality and helplessness. Of course, I yearn for the pure and hazy feelings in the past, which is actually just a contrast between reality and ideal. When the relationship between reality and ideal is too far away, Xiao Fang's aftertaste will be stronger.
However, the memories are full and the reality is very skinny. When many people go through all kinds of hardships to find Xiao Fang in those days, there is a feeling that "it is better to miss each other than to meet each other". After all, the reality is too cruel, and time can change everyone. The innocence and innocence of that year have long been washed away by years, and the beauty and innocence of that year have long been branded by reality, which makes us unable to believe that the woman in front of us is actually Xiao Fang of that year. However, where did Xiao Fang go?
Therefore, Xiao Fang, who lives in men's hearts, is an expression of the ideal pursuit of emotion, a dissatisfaction with the emotional gap in reality, and also shows that every man is eager for a pure and sincere emotion. However, the years are in a hurry, the time flies, the reality is helpless, and we can only recall.
In fact, every man has a good heart, and every woman also has a prince charming in her heart. When men complain that real feelings are too far from ideal feelings, women also complain the same. Therefore, when a man wants a woman's affection for him to be like Xiao Fang's, a woman actually wants a man's affection for him to be like Prince Charming in his heart, and life may be spent in the collision between reality and ideal.